Singles & Dating - 15 September 2006

This girl and me were really close, we would stay up till 12 in the mornin talkin sometime, now that mite not be alot, but it is for her, she is homeschooled, I go to public school. Well I asked her to the movies, and she said Idk maybe , and REALLy backed off, she seemed nervous around me, I thought she just didnt wanna hurt my feelings, but she told her friends, she just wants to see if I can stick with her. Well we got further and further apart, until I couldnt stand it anymore and I emailed her, spilled my guts, and asked her to be brutally honest on how she fealt about me, heres what she said

well first of all, I don't hate you. second, I haven't been avoiding you either becuase its not been just swimming that I've been busy with its been life.I also haven't been beating around the bush because you never asked me if I did or not. But I haven't ever thought of being more than friends with you because we've always been good friends and I think thats how things should stay.I just don't want to ruin a friendship.hope you've had a good day, and i will talk to you later

Now, When I read that two things come to mind. One, that she is just trying to be nice. But on the other hand, she is just scared, because she has never had a bf b4, and weve been friends since age 7.

But now she seems more comfortable around me, like now she talks more, and seems more comfortable, but then she'll seem like she wants me, I can tell by the way she looks, and the way she acts, she just seems really sad, and down,

Oh yeah, and she told her mom , that she is just really really scared, and that she does like me, but she told her friends she just dont want to hurt my feelings, now her and her mom are really close, but so are her and her friends, Do you think she likes me, or is just letting me down easy?

And I am respecting her wishes, I emailed her and told her that I respect her decision, and we havent talked about it since.

But I really really do care for her, I wake up and she's the first thing I think about, I go to sleep and Fall asleep thinking about her. I mean I know I'm only 15, but I really do love her, and would do anything in this world to be with her. I've tried moving on, I've been trying to do that, but I just can't. Even though I am am guy, yes I have cried numerous time for her, and about her. I mean, I'm not ugly, I'm fit, and I'm not a big geek or anything, so what gives? I really do love her, what should I do?

2006-09-15 04:55:16 · 4 answers · asked by how many 1

Everytime I go out with a new girl, I say look, I want you to know right now, that I would never get married without a prenup. If this develops into anything serious you need to remember that. My brother does this too, and told his gf this on their first date. Now she wants him to propose to her, but she refuses a prenup. I tell him don't marry her with out one. Love is grand, but divorce is a hundred grand. How would you convince a girl to sign one, without seeming like you don't trust her?

2006-09-15 04:55:11 · 3 answers · asked by joe 3

If someone used to like you but now has no feelings for you, is it right for that person to concider you as not existing?
And if it is how are you supposed to react?

2006-09-15 04:54:48 · 10 answers · asked by Ella. 1

Much love and respect Lovely soul

2006-09-15 04:54:27 · 6 answers · asked by lovely soul with insite 3

How can you tell if a guy is a "player"?
Does the guy have to like the girls they are "playing" with or not?

2006-09-15 04:53:46 · 22 answers · asked by XCuteX 1

do i tell him?

2006-09-15 04:53:06 · 17 answers · asked by soxgirl0780 2

or go to the justice of the peace and use that $50,000 on a down payment for a house

2006-09-15 04:53:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-15 04:52:24 · 23 answers · asked by Blue_Monkey 1

where are all the GOOD HONEST AND RESPECTFUL LOVING MEN in MICHIGAN? Have you all left??

2006-09-15 04:51:24 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been seeing this girl who lives kinda far, casually for a few years. This girl is moving closer to me for a new job. She's really fun and outgoing, and very opinionated. She's already told me that if a boyfriend ever told her she couldn't talk to an ex or a guy friend, that she would break up with him. I've had some jealousy issues in the past with girlfriends. I just don't like the idea of my girlfriend talking and being friendly with someone she used to be involved with. In my opinion, If ex's are still talking to one another, then one of them still likes the other, or maybe both of them. Anyways, guess my question would be, do I tell her I wont date her after all this time unless she stops talking with her 2 ex-boyfriends, or do I try to let it go and trust her?

2006-09-15 04:50:05 · 33 answers · asked by Smirx 2

we've been friends for a year and a half and we tell each other lots of stuff.the thing is I hav feelings for him and i think he feels d same cuz he 1ce asked wat i wouldsay if he askd me out.I said no comment cuz i wasn't sure then dat he was serious.He's a friend of my ex.I'm done with high school but he's not.Should i make a move or just wait and see?

2006-09-15 04:49:06 · 19 answers · asked by Teen Star 1

sure they're the number 1 way to provent having a baby but theres no feelin at all.pull out methood,or say he doesnt have my eyes.whats you're opinoin

2006-09-15 04:48:53 · 19 answers · asked by baseball_saenz 2

I like the guy and i think he kinda likes me. But there are a couple of problems....He has a gf and he is close friends with this guy that likes me ALOT!

2006-09-15 04:46:58 · 18 answers · asked by kmichelle89 2

sometimes it amazes me how some women stick by guys who embarrass them in public. what's the deal with that?!

2006-09-15 04:46:58 · 37 answers · asked by ShaneA 3

2006-09-15 04:45:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-15 04:45:22 · 22 answers · asked by parkdad73 1

After all sex is a recreational thing between two consenting adults, and doesnt always need to be shared between two lovers, purely two consenting adults. I always assume women only want wining and dining rather than a bit of the other!!

2006-09-15 04:45:03 · 14 answers · asked by Blue_Monkey 1

Me and my boyfriend live in the same apartment complex, but with friends. When our one year lease runs out we will definitely be getting a place together. I'll be in my third year of college.

Note that we are in love and have been for five years, and so marriage is going to happen eventually. Anyone have any advice on when the best time to get married is? Benefits to rushing to the altar or waiting a certain amount of time?

2006-09-15 04:44:24 · 17 answers · asked by Brackalicious 4

2006-09-15 04:44:20 · 9 answers · asked by Flibble 3

Or do you believe someone must be either straight or gay?

2006-09-15 04:43:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Wife kinda lumpy and blubber resides mightily in her belly and cellulite dominant like Hulk Hogan over Clay Aiken near her weird butt. I pleasure myself and my soul over xrated internet and my computer haunted with a lot of crazy circus sex and all that. She notice that I no longer have stiffy cause of all the yanking I do, but really, i just wanna stare at screen of lady hookers and do that than hump her unattractive human body. Should I tell her?

2006-09-15 04:43:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2006-09-15 04:42:49 · 3 answers · asked by philanthropic 1

i am looking for a girl who is interested in making friendship and i will not meet untill it will be ok for u and i will be honest and loyal really looking for someone to share my feelings and expressions and waiting for reply

2006-09-15 04:41:58 · 2 answers · asked by raj 1

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2006-09-15 04:41:03 · 13 answers · asked by DegenerationX 2

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2006-09-15 04:39:24 · 34 answers · asked by choosinghappiness 5

How would you feel if your girlfriend has only one breast and lost the other breast to cancer? Because my girlfriend has only one breast and I am very freaked out when I was feeling her up and found out that she has only one breast. How scary. What should I do?

2006-09-15 04:38:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

what is the best way to ask a gilr out?

2006-09-15 04:37:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Need help thinking of something to get my boyfriend. Any ideas?? Id like to keep it under $300 max

2006-09-15 04:37:31 · 5 answers · asked by michelleyi 1

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 5 years. A while ago he was addicted to internet porn. We have talked about it and I finally got him to stop looking at it on the internet. He still views it on DVD's but it's not as bad, and it really doesn't bother me as much. Now he is instant messaging and chating online with alot of women. He says that he doesn't just ask women questions he asks men too, so that he can be more educated about sex. But his contact list is nothing but women names and e-mail addresses. He says that his questions are not out of the way. One of them was, "Do women get mad when a man looks at another woman on TV?" But I caught him in the adult section of a chat room talking about masterbation,penis sizes, and what size women prefer. He says that he just wants to get more educated about women and what they want. Shouldn't he come and ask me those questions? We have even talked about marriage. Should I be worried? He should only care what I think, right?

2006-09-15 04:37:29 · 2 answers · asked by Marie 2