Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 5 years. A while ago he was addicted to internet porn. We have talked about it and I finally got him to stop looking at it on the internet. He still views it on DVD's but it's not as bad, and it really doesn't bother me as much. Now he is instant messaging and chating online with alot of women. He says that he doesn't just ask women questions he asks men too, so that he can be more educated about sex. But his contact list is nothing but women names and e-mail addresses. He says that his questions are not out of the way. One of them was, "Do women get mad when a man looks at another woman on TV?" But I caught him in the adult section of a chat room talking about masterbation,penis sizes, and what size women prefer. He says that he just wants to get more educated about women and what they want. Shouldn't he come and ask me those questions? We have even talked about marriage. Should I be worried? He should only care what I think, right?
2006-09-15 04:37:29 · 2 answers · asked by Marie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, there are worse things he can be addicted to, right?
I would not make a big deal out of this if he's a good guy otherwise. It will pass just like other fads...
2006-09-15 08:07:29 · answer #1 · answered by more_evil_then_santa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, notwithstanding it form of feels to me that there are various things going on which you dont understand. this is relatively suspitious that he even refuse speaking on the telephone. may well be he's a woman? and is fidgeting with you? have self assurance me, i even have considered some females whom are fidgeting with different females on internet. i'm no longer meaning to renounce chatting or something, yet in no way forget approximately that during this variety of circumstances which you even have not heard his voice, you ought to look unquestionably pessimist. 5 years isn't a quick time and you ought to be sparkling with him and your self. in case you in user-friendly terms choose a friendship, then this is super which you have somebody to speak to, and in case you elect a dating extra suitable than friendship, ask him without postpone and not in any respect enable anybody to play with you and your thoughts. you ought to be severe and choose him to make sparkling the situation. and save in mind which you ought to steer away from an afternoon which you take a seat and blame your self once you're telling such dropping time with the help of speaking to him or thinking of him. sorry for my english
2016-12-18 10:45:13 · answer #2 · answered by cheathem 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋