I have problems getting the convidence to ask young women out on dates because I am a very shy person and the only place I see Beautifull young women is when I go for a walk but I don't know what to say to a young women when I am attracted to them because I get very nervous and clam up the most I can do is smile at them and that's it please can you tell me what women want's to hear from a man that they have just met on the street how shall I proceede to ask her out what is the best way to go about it thank you.
2006-09-15 02:13:57 · 14 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
most guys walk straight to women and say hi,then blush or they recite some funny pick-up texts from magazines like'i lost my phone number;could u give me urs?' that we hear all the time...honestly,i think that's not the way to make it....women like to help and i think that u could try asking her directions,but still make sure that u will be going in the same way....then u have all the time to chat,find out what she's like and gain her confidence.
2006-09-15 02:25:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think first u must try to overcome ur shyness. When u'r attracted to a girl while walking , just do something to get her attention, like getting long eye contact, try smile, ask her what time it is, or even go as far as blindly bumping into a her then help her pick her stuffs.
With any of the above she certainly might grant u audience. If she does, appreciate her guesture & looks. just be urself, be friendly, do the introduction thing and tell her u will like to see her again. That might be a good start. Hope that helps
2006-09-15 09:41:37 · answer #2 · answered by hottest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that's one long sentence,
Anyway, there is no right or wrong thing to say. You have to say what comes naturally. Being shy that may be tough for you, but women love a man who isn't afraid to approach them.
Women find confidence very sexy in a man. You just have to get up the courage and do it. What's the worst they can do? Say no and walk away? Oh well, at that point you just move on.
Look at it this way bro, if you go up to them and they say no you would have lost nothing. However if you go up to them and they say yes you've gained. But you'll never know unless you ask
2006-09-15 09:19:07 · answer #3 · answered by bad_dog76 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How sweet. Stay just the way you are and don't worry about it. Eventually it will happen and you'll know exactly what to say. Shyness will be outgrown or at least you'll learn how to get around it or make it work to your advantage. Your hormones are getting ahead of your brains, I assume you're pretty young. Give it time to catch up, in the meantime I guess you'll just have to remain horny. That's life kiddo, boys are horny, give it time.
If you are seeing girls on walks then take up jogging, that will not only help you burn off your energy it will give you something in common to talk to these girls about.
Linda
2006-09-15 09:18:37 · answer #4 · answered by Linda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, practice speaking in the mirror. Seeing yourself should help you build up self confidence and you'll also be able to get a sense of self worth. When you are ready, go try it out. Every woman is different, but they all like a man who believes in their self and is confident of what they say and/or do
2006-09-15 09:21:49 · answer #5 · answered by Branded with the Dark Mark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trev, You should always smile and be polite, just say what comes to mind let the person know you find her attractive and ask her if she would like to walk with you and get to know each other. never worry about looking or sounding silly cause people are just people and the worst that can happen is they say no.
2006-09-15 09:21:25 · answer #6 · answered by seilygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your out walking and you see a woman whom u like. You have to kindof try and be a little less shy. Women like a man who is confident in him self. He know's he looks good and that he has something to offer her. Wether it's looks, talking, whatever. But walk up to her say hi my name is..... Ask her what her name is.. Then start up a converstaion. Hey what do you like to do... Go out to movies, clubs ya know what is it you do for fun. Once she tells you take that and run with it. If she says she likes to go out to dinner and a movie. Ask her would you like to go out with me on such and such day for a movie and dinner.. Just believe in ur self.. And you'll get ur self a woman...
2006-09-15 09:19:17 · answer #7 · answered by Kimberly C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start with Hi and if they respond ask them a question like do you know where I can get a great cup of coffee or something like that. Go from there.
2006-09-15 09:16:47 · answer #8 · answered by Sherrie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trevor,,, to win a woman's heart, one has to be very 'thick skin'.
Do not worry about rejection because you will never know until you try. Once you have identify your 'honey' turn into a 'bee' and 'fly' towards it. pick up a conversation with your 'honey' ..you got to show your sincerity to befriend your 'honey' ..and who knows ....she may agree to go to a movie with you this weekend.
Good Luck !
2006-09-15 09:22:40 · answer #9 · answered by Phantom of the Opera 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the women you meet that they look nice today if they stop and hold a conversation with you you are in if they keep walking move on to another.
2006-09-15 09:17:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋