me and my bf have been together for about a year and a half off and on. we just recently got back together after a 3 month breakup. i love him so much but we broke up because i found out he lied to me about some stuff. now we are back together and he is trying to gain my trust back, but i have no clue how to trust him again, i love him and want to be with him but i cant be with someone i dont trust. i want us to work as much ads he does but im not sure if i can. HELP!
2006-09-15 02:00:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you probably can't or you wouldn't be here after already taking him back! Go with your decision, if he screws up again LEAVE IMMEDIATELY.
2006-09-15 02:06:35 · answer #1 · answered by europa312 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a glass is broken, even if you glue it back together it still is considered broken. Its the same with trust. You just have to move on.
2006-09-15 09:20:08 · answer #2 · answered by Meeya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion ur love is impossible because love is trust how u can't be without water so love can't be without trust... Think when someday u will have sex with him (for example) how u will can be sure he don't say about this thing his friend etc.. i say love without trust isn't love... make a choise.. :)
2006-09-15 09:11:01 · answer #3 · answered by GirlOfSoul 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can only begin 2 trust again with time, it's not a qucik fix, it won't happen over night, but after time passes if he doesn't gain your trust back it's probably best u move on, goodluck.
2006-09-15 09:05:44 · answer #4 · answered by D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know know how you can sit there saying I want it to work so bad, and then say you don't trust him and it won't work. It's simple if you want it to work you forgive him and shift your mind to trust him. If you don't want to trust him then end it
2006-09-15 09:03:53 · answer #5 · answered by joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
any relationship that is described as off and on will not work.. you'll just be off again in a short time.
That's my honest opinion.
About trusting it's a time issue, and with an off and on you just don't have time on your side
2006-09-15 09:03:44 · answer #6 · answered by attila 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once the trust is gone its very hard to get it back....good luck
2006-09-15 09:03:45 · answer #7 · answered by CJM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you wont really trust him again and if he really loved you he wouldnt have lied to you in da first place if he cant tell you the truth it is time to leave his ***
2006-09-15 09:08:07 · answer #8 · answered by gangstaboo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To err is human,to forgive is devine.If you truely love him try forgiving him.Trust will automatically be restored.
2006-09-15 09:13:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not worth it. People break up for reasons....That's why they are called your ex. Don't take any lies from him. I bet you can do better than that. Don't waste your time.
2006-09-15 09:06:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋