Singles & Dating - 15 September 2006

A year ago, my boyfriend and I of six months got into a huge argument and broke up. I was so distraught and basically depressed that I slept with another guy the next night because I thought I would never have a chance to be with my ex again. I continued to date this other guy for a month after my ex said that he didn't really mean to break up with me in the beginning. Soon after, I came out of my depression and realized that I still loved the first guy, so we started dating again. After a year of dating, he broke up with me because he still couldn't get over me "cheating" on him. I apoligize, but he started dating another girl. He cheated on this girl with me, and then he flipped out and said he doesn't wanna be friends with me anymore. He's blaming me for his infidelity. I still love him, but more so, I really want to be good friends with him. Please tell me what I can do so I don't lose him.

2006-09-15 09:05:04 · 6 answers · asked by Steph 3

For the guys that haven't ever married, if you don't have any family around and they are actually living in another country, if I just want to be happy, I don't know if it is meant for me to find someone or not to share life, but how about if I just let life go without looking for anything, does that sounds like a bad idea?, do you guys think is possible to be single-no-kids, no family for ever and BE happy?, If I happen to be that way, I may be donating money to children without parents and things like that, my concern is if I don't find anyone (person I think I wont be trying to find), do you know someone that has done that and is happy?, or loneliness is just BAD?, anyone also thinks like this or has done this?

2006-09-15 09:04:07 · 14 answers · asked by livingthe30s 3

i have this huge crush on a guy but i don't know if he feels the same wya. what do u think?we used to be really good friends and talked all the time then a grl found out i liked him and told him everything and he stopped talking to me but then over the summer he started e-mailing, instant messaging, and texting me again like 24/7 so when skool started i thought we would be really good friends again but i was so-so wrong he won't talk to me unless i start the convo. but he still talks to me online all the time he talks to my bff all the time about me though and i always catch him staring at me and when i look over he turns his head fast so when we like go to asemblies and his friends sit by me he sits furthest away except lately he has benn getting closer and closer and he walks past me at lunch except he is so close i could trip him just by moving my foot my friends say hes trying to get my attention but im not sure that's it what do u think?

2006-09-15 09:03:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't understand how that is possible. I'm not desperate, but I date a lot, and nothing ever really excites me about any particular person.
But when I am dating, I am always subconsciously thinking that I might find 'true love'.
How am I going to find it if I am always expecting it?

2006-09-15 09:02:18 · 27 answers · asked by misscongeniality711 2

I like an 8th grader, but I don't know like, how to talk to him. Like start a conversation. I want to get to know him.... what should I do?

2006-09-15 09:02:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

sex is great tend to get carried away but do you think it is okay for a dude to come on a girl's face is it really sexy or degrading

2006-09-15 09:02:06 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

She pulled me away to have a conversation, and I have a strong feeling that she likes me. Well, in our conversation she started talking about how many shoes she has. She said, "I will probably spend so much on clothing that I run my husband into debt !" I think she likes me and now I am scared to even like her in return. What the heck was she telling me in the comment? Or am I just being paranoid??? I am pretty sure she really likes me, and I really like her. HELP!!!

2006-09-15 08:59:56 · 20 answers · asked by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2

i met a guy durring my holidays and were together for about 1 month..it was jst a summer lover..!then he told me that he was in love wth his ex and told me what had happened between them before meeting me..so i told him goodbye..we haven't talked after that..we didn't argue but we jst don't talk..in a few days it's his name day..shall i send him and wish him happy name day or not?and if i do so what will he think about me?that i'm still thinking about him..or?

2006-09-15 08:59:45 · 15 answers · asked by questionnaire aged 15 1

Let's just say, that the two of you are alone. How can you hint to the other person that you want to make out with them... like how do you make a move? Or how do you tell them that you want to make out with them? LOL

2006-09-15 08:57:27 · 5 answers · asked by g.i. janee 1

ok here is the story.At school their is this girls who is in all have my classes expect gym every time we have to go another class the girl is waiting for me at the classroom door and then holds my hand until we get to the next class also he is talk to me on a certin way. also when i was going up the stairs to my math class the girl ask me out on a date. what should I do? the girl looks good but i dont like her.also she want me to walk to her house.what should I do? thanks for the help

2006-09-15 08:57:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok... so there is this guy in my gym class that I really like... he is really hot, in my eyes that is... I've heard from many people that he is a kinda person... but the thing is... he is on the football team and is really popular and he doesn't know who I am... I myself am not so popular.. I have friends n all but but not a whole ton... Is there a chance for me and him to get together?? And what should I do to talk to him or get his attention?? anyone got some good advice for me??? he is also a senior and I am a junior in H.S.

2006-09-15 08:57:15 · 6 answers · asked by babygurl 1

ok this guy i like asked me out yesterday and i said but you have a gf and hes like well i need you to say yes b4 i break up with her. so i said yes...is this a bad thing? My friend said that it doesnt matter as long as he DOES break up with his girl. What should i do?

2006-09-15 08:56:24 · 12 answers · asked by confused_mexican 2

if there is this boy and u think he dosen't notice u but u r to scared to talk to him?

2006-09-15 08:55:44 · 18 answers · asked by white panther 2

This guy asked me out he really cute but i dont know weather he wants to go out with me or is going it for a bet. because there is a rumor around school that first guy in this one groupto get a kiss from me will get a 50 dollars or something i dont know weather he in on it or if the rumor not true. and he asked me bio we were parters for a lab and we finished r work so we started talking. and he later near the end of the period he asked me out i told him i eould get back to him and left i dont know wat to say and he came up to later and said the rumors werent true but i dont know. wat should i do.

2006-09-15 08:55:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

She is very conservative and east indian. She is so beautiful but not adventurous enough for me. I am latino and have a much stronger sx drive than her. How can I get her to take more interest and try other things like anl, etc...?

2006-09-15 08:54:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I got really mad at my boyfriend because we were fighting and in homeroom he asked me to look at somethin so when i got up he pulled the chir away so i fell everyone laughed and i also flashed everyone he acted really immature but then at lunch i walked up to him in and slapped him across the face. i felt bad so i said sorry but he wont talk to me what can i say to get him to talk to me?

2006-09-15 08:54:09 · 18 answers · asked by catlover092 2

2006-09-15 08:52:47 · 28 answers · asked by brittineyc 1

is it wrong

2006-09-15 08:52:21 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

For instence would you brake up with him and think that your doing the right thing or do you let it slip by and give him anouther chance this is what happend to me he broke my heart did i do the right thing because i still have dreams about him and i still have fillings for him and i need your help....................................................

2006-09-15 08:52:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

theres this hot kid i like at my bus stop... now i'm a freshmen in h.s and he's a sophmore... we don't really talk except i said bless you today... i'm nervous to talk to him cause i don't know how he'll react... what should i do?

2006-09-15 08:51:34 · 11 answers · asked by Sarah A 1

For instence would you brake up with him and think that your doing the right thing or do you let it slip by and give him anouther chance this is what happend to me he broke my heart did i do the right thing because i still have dreams about him and i still have fillings for him and i need your help....................................................

2006-09-15 08:50:37 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been bleeding for almost 2 weeks now. Light, nothing heavy. I wasn't due until Wednesday. Wednesday I started bleeding heavy with painful cramps and I passed a large blood clot (sorry that's gross) I'd never seen anything like it. Any chance I was pregnant? I'm on ortho lo but missed a pill a little while ago. I'm not even bleeding today hardly. I haven't been sleeping and I've been having a lot of stress with my boyfriend, could this be a factor? Sorry this is long. Thanks in advance.

2006-09-15 08:50:19 · 15 answers · asked by SweetEmotion 1

Here's how the text messages went:

Me: ...Hey, do you want 2 come 4 tea at mine Friday I'm making beef. Wine is also on the menu. x

Lass: ...I might have to take u up on the offer tomorrow, I'll let u know for definite by the end of the day tho cos im not sure of my plans yet! Have a good day x

Me:Okay x

9 HOURS LATER...

Lass: just thought I better let u know im not gonna make it tomorrow, thnx for the offer tho'! Hope u have a good weekend, I'll probably see u on next nite out at the end of the month! (works due)

NEXT DAY...

Me: Ok. Maybe see you then, then.

Me: ...just thought on, u said u wanted 2 come bk to (company name) lastnight, was that the drink talking? I can have a word at work if u want me to. Let me know & also let me know if u want 2 have a drink 1 night perhaps. I don't bite only if u ask me to. (Smiley face) x

Lass: It'll have been the drink talking I have to be honest with u, Ive split up with my boyfriend but I have got my eye on someone

2006-09-15 08:50:08 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

Not enough to make you pass out but just a little bit.

2006-09-15 08:49:50 · 12 answers · asked by juju 3

falling in love with several people and breaking up or falling in love once and for all?

2006-09-15 08:49:21 · 16 answers · asked by unicorn 2

LOVE that movie!!!!!!! Do you? But I have a question about it. When "Sunshine" kisses the football captin (sorry, forget the name), is he seriously gay, or is he playing cause he called him fruity? And guys, if he was playing around, would you ever do it just to play around? Thanks :)

2006-09-15 08:48:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you sport the "toe" accidently by pants you wear or is this done on purpose?

2006-09-15 08:47:59 · 14 answers · asked by Paul M 3

were thinking of getting another place together i have depression and go though lots of anxtiety i think he has it also but i really love him and i know i don't need him to live and he doesn't cling either bc he says before we broke up he did'nt have enogh space i've been married 2 xs he's never been marriedb i have 1 child and can't have more he has none are there 2 many problems or can love really conquer all?

2006-09-15 08:44:48 · 10 answers · asked by virginia m 2

Should I call the Bakery?????

2006-09-15 08:44:41 · 10 answers · asked by ? 1

my boyfriend kept saying that he wants to marry me. and now he's talking about having kids!! :S wtf i dont want any kids. u know what, when he asked me out i never liked him i just felt sorry for him, but then i started liking him, but now he's just really annoying, i dont think i like him much anymore :S i dont know what to do i dont wana break up :S
but commom kids :S -gives a disgusted face- i dont want any.
o ya i'm only 14!! he's 16!! i think he's really crazy. he wants to get engaged when i'm 18 he's really really crazy :S i so dont know what to do, and this is weird for me cuz he used to be one of my best friends. kinda gross...

2006-09-15 08:44:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous