She is very conservative and east indian. She is so beautiful but not adventurous enough for me. I am latino and have a much stronger sx drive than her. How can I get her to take more interest and try other things like anl, etc...?
2006-09-15 08:54:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just do it, If it works for nike it will work for you. She might feel uncomfortable at first, but once she gets into it it will all be peachy.
2006-09-15 08:57:24 · answer #1 · answered by Skanky McSkankypants 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will not win this battle by charging against the walls. Use a more subtle strategy. The main goal is to help her feel more relaxed, more confident, more adventurous. Don't jump ahead to something that will be really new and scary. Start sloly. Add the spice lightly. Have her wear something special. Pick a new and romantic spot for lovemaking. Help her to be a part of the fun and you will be surprised how quickly she may find her own imagination released.
2006-09-15 15:58:52 · answer #2 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELLO ,this may come down to how much trust she has in you . Dont underestimate her. Obviously you are the leader in the bedroom so i suggest that you try persuading her along some different paths which will indicate if she will adventure. If not as you have stated this is not enough for you and best you look for someone more compatable . good luck
2006-09-15 16:07:17 · answer #3 · answered by Adrian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a tough nut to crack man. Just be straight foward with her and tell her you want to try different things in bed. Ask her opinion on what she thinks about doing whatever. Part of sexuality is exploration, finding out what each other likes. ask her to take the adventure since you love her. good luck!
2006-09-15 16:01:24 · answer #4 · answered by Omar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a sex shop and find some games and oils ect..... ask a woman (sale person) in there help you pick out some things!!
2006-09-15 15:57:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Initiate new things gradually, but make sure you never force any particular issue, and above all respect her boundaries.
2006-09-15 15:57:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably can't. especially in the Indian culture, stuff like anal is very taboo. You can speak to her about it, but it is unlikely she will go for it.
2006-09-15 15:58:34 · answer #7 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's not into something you shouldn't force the issue. Most women aren't into anal, what you need is another guy if you want that.
2006-09-15 15:58:17 · answer #8 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try making games out of stuff.... get a hat... little pieces of paper, write on them (whatever adventures you wanna have =] ) Make her agree to do what ever is written on it b4 she picks it... then tell her to pick, and enjoy! haha
2006-09-15 15:57:31 · answer #9 · answered by lil_troublemaker1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well try getting her to the height of orgasm and driving her crazy ...say you wont do her unless she tries _______________. granted that phrase wont work unless she's wildly turned on..not an every day saying sort of thing
2006-09-15 15:57:58 · answer #10 · answered by TheMaverick.The Artist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋