I got really mad at my boyfriend because we were fighting and in homeroom he asked me to look at somethin so when i got up he pulled the chir away so i fell everyone laughed and i also flashed everyone he acted really immature but then at lunch i walked up to him in and slapped him across the face. i felt bad so i said sorry but he wont talk to me what can i say to get him to talk to me?
2006-09-15 08:54:09 · 18 answers · asked by catlover092 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
More to the point... why would you want him to talk to you? It sounds to me like you're better off without this immature brat.
Both of you have learned your lessons. He won't pull that stupid chair stunt on future girlfriends, and you won't go around humiliating a boyfriend in front of your whole school. Hopefully you'll both do better in your next relationships... painful as it is, stupid mistakes like this are how you learn.
2006-09-15 08:56:22 · answer #1 · answered by Bramblyspam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you have do decide if you really want to be with someone that treats you like that. If you do then you need to explain to him why you did what you did and that yes you might have over reacted a little but you did it because he hurt you. You both may have made a mistake but hopefully you are big enough to get past it. If you don't want to be with him then put on a smile and move on. Just make sure you think before you act next time.
2006-09-15 15:59:51 · answer #2 · answered by David P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to the first person that answered .. she did not really screw up if the guy embarresed her in front of everyone like that
that is an extremly immature thing to do .. pull someones chair out from under them gag me
i do agree though slapping him in front of everyone may not be the best way to go but i think i would just let it alone now if he comes back to you and apoligize thats great but dont you go to him and apoligize!
good luck
2006-09-15 15:59:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea I agree. He would be stupid to talk back with you. It was not his fault you got clumsy and fell. And I hope you didn't expect a teenage guy to act mature abotu you falling in class. I think you pretty much screwed up if he's smart.
2006-09-15 15:58:06 · answer #4 · answered by truthbetold 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
=T if i were u, i would just not even talk to him and not take him back unless he BEGGED me. because u slapped him, now he has a reason to say "she deserved that chair incident i did to her".
if u had been respectful of urself and of him, he would have had to apologize. now because of ur actions, u have to apologize. =T that sucks. u need to change so that no matter what u are Proud of ur actions, so u never regret what u've done. and find a guy who feels the same way himself, so he never would do that immature stuff to you. good luck.
2006-09-15 15:59:26 · answer #5 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, he would be a dumb *** to even talk to you after slapping him across the face in front of your school. You screwed up-time to move on.
2006-09-15 15:56:08 · answer #6 · answered by Steph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him, there are other fish in the sea, especially if you are still in high school! He sounds like he has some major growing up to do. It was just mean what he did, and I wouldn't forgive him for it!
2006-09-15 15:59:12 · answer #7 · answered by sweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him. He is making a fool of you and making you the laughing stock. He wants to dish it out but does'nt like his own medicine.
2006-09-15 16:10:50 · answer #8 · answered by robsnor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of slapping him you should have explained how you felt when he did what he did. Now he feels justified and is as angry as you were.
2006-09-15 15:56:51 · answer #9 · answered by trovanhawk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to stop being a typical immature A$$ (I HATE PEOPLE) he deserved it!
ps. If i was your friend, i beat the SHYTE out of him
(immature people make me want to hurt people)
2006-09-15 15:56:53 · answer #10 · answered by Irish ME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋