Ok... so there is this guy in my gym class that I really like... he is really hot, in my eyes that is... I've heard from many people that he is a kinda person... but the thing is... he is on the football team and is really popular and he doesn't know who I am... I myself am not so popular.. I have friends n all but but not a whole ton... Is there a chance for me and him to get together?? And what should I do to talk to him or get his attention?? anyone got some good advice for me??? he is also a senior and I am a junior in H.S.
2006-09-15 08:57:15 · 6 answers · asked by babygurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unfortunatly in the High school days, boys who are popular have a big head and only go for what they want. Thats how it always seemed to me. But maybe this guy isn't a jerk. Maybe bump into him in the hallway and smile and say hi. If he responds keep it up. After a few days maybe try a little conversation. Like "Hey! How are you? Seems like I see you everyday. Isn't your name so and so and don't you play on the football team?" or something like that.
If the first time you smile and say hi and he doesn't respond -- don't give up yet. Try it again a few days later.
If still nothing or he seems to be a complete jerk or just laughs forget about it.
I was the same in High school as you described yourself---a few years after high school I started talking to one of the hot guys that was a major athletic guy in HS and we hooked up. So you never know... even if it's not now, anything could happen. Good luck!
2006-09-15 09:04:43 · answer #1 · answered by Some Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl, be careful around popular football players.... because alot of them are just out to get in your pants and thats it !! U will find a few that actually give a crap, but few and far between.. how do i know......... i'll tell you, i use to play football in school and they were always trying to see how many girls they could do in a season..... that's why again just be careful
2006-09-15 09:07:09 · answer #2 · answered by BIG BEN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is short and you are still young. There will be many men you will like and who will like you and not like you. Don't worry so much about guys right now. If you want him to notice you, just say hi and smile.
2006-09-15 09:01:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear something really sexy but not overboard and go talk to him. Just ask him if he'd like to go to lunch, or talk to him about sports or movies.. Make small talk with him, but dont make yourself look desperate. And if he says no, or doesnt call you then just move on, there's pleny of more fish in the sea.
2006-09-15 09:01:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget everything you've seen on TV. Popularity and dating don't really go together.
2006-09-15 09:09:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
run into him one day at school in the hallway and drop your books at his feet........ if he helps you pick them up and you hold a short conversation then he is worth the *going after* and you just got *noticed*, it will be your first impression so smile alot and touch his hands when he hands you a book he has picked up. If he helps you pick up your books that is. BLessed be and good luck!!
2006-09-15 09:03:51 · answer #6 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋