Singles & Dating - 14 September 2006

My boyfriend just called me, he is out of town on business. He used to work with a girl who I think had the hots for him, she would come into his office and sit and talk alot! He would tell me about , so I wasn't too worried. She ended up getting fired, so I havent' given her much thought lately. He just now called and told me she called him yesterday "just to say hi". I know she has the hots for him, I'm not sure what he thinks about her. At one point he asked me to go with him to a bbq she had invited him to at her house, so I thought, good sign. He also told me she called, and I guess he didn't have to tell me, so should I be worried. The guy is a filrt, he says she is not his type, and I know he enjoyed the attention, like any man would. what do y'all think? (We didn't go to the bbq due to a brief break-up so I haven't met her.) But I figure he really didn't even have to tell me about the bbq if he didn't want to. He says he thinks she has the hots for him too....any advice?

2006-09-14 07:06:52 · 11 answers · asked by Jo G 2

I have been dating the same guy for 4 1/2 years now and I really love but I don't know if I could ever trust him again. Last year I met him a chicken place for just a few minutes while I was waiting on my food and from nowhere he said he had to go so he left and I thought nothing about it. He kissed me and a few seconds later a car was chasing behind him with 2 females in it honking at him. I recongnized the girl that was driving from work and then she turned around and got out the car to talk to me. She asked me if I was the guy girlfriend and I said yes and she said for how long and I told her for 3yrs. She said that she has been with him for 2 and he told her that he and I werent together anymore(we all work at the same hospital and they both work in the same department). When he and I 1st started talking I just got out of a 1 1/2 year relationship and wasnt really looking for anyone especially at work and he was involved with someone else. not finish will send part 2

2006-09-14 07:05:20 · 13 answers · asked by tnek 2

(they use to stay together) In fact I was so drunk lastnight I didn't even know she had came over. I am not sleeping with her. If I had slept with her last night why would I have called you to come over this morning? My heart wants to believe because I do love him but my mind know better. Does this story sound believable to anyone?

2006-09-14 07:04:25 · 9 answers · asked by Sasha 3

i have only known her a short time and have no contact now, we stay in different countries, but my feelings are so strong i could swear she has no faults, and can honestly say she is the MOST GORGEOUS GIRL EVER! better looking than jennifer anniston and she is hot, i dont think i'll ever meet anyone as good as her all the girls i meet now just do not compare and i think about her every second of the day, she was a great mate as well as girlfriend, theres no chance of me finding where she is now, its the biggest mistake of my life to not see her again if i could turn back time i would move to be near her.

2006-09-14 06:56:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-14 06:54:55 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-14 06:49:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just got a txt from my ex askin what time im workin tomorrow because he has the day off. I replied 9 and asked why and he said that he was just wonderin. I then asked him again and he still said that he was just wonderin. What did he want? ALSO i slept with him yesterday and he has a gf who he says he cares for alot. I told him i didnt feel guilty and that he had already forgotten about it which is fine by me, but the thing is if it meant nothing then why ask what i was doing tomorrow?

2006-09-14 06:48:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

More specifically, to men who have had this experience, what are the advantages of older women in bed over younger women.

2006-09-14 06:48:08 · 6 answers · asked by sarvar 1

i have recently found out that my ex fiance has found a new lover and that new lover would just have to be my ex co worker and friend!! he tells everyone that she is his miracle. same thing he told me when we were together. but they gurl is a ***** i mean all she wants is money and that is exactly what he will give her...
you think he will ever realize that he has made a big mistake?

2006-09-14 06:47:42 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-14 06:47:31 · 7 answers · asked by bapz04 1

The reason why I asked this is someone told me that women believe it or not can tell more about a man than he even knows about himself based on how she perceives him. An example, body language, way a man talks (confidence), shy, if he's boring or exciting to be around. I guess it's a vibe that they feel. Like they can tell if other females are attracted to you based on how she feels an attraction for you. She just knows if you're a ladies man or not...simply put! Also, females if a man were to fulfill your fantasy no matter what it may be? Not just anyman, can fulfill them...there has to be an attraction between you and him to even allow this to happen do you agree? In other words, if I said I'll fulfill your fantasy but you have no attraction for me, you wouldn't want me to fulfill it, you'd prefer another guy with the right attraction correct? Anyway, tell me how your opinion on all this, it can be long or short answers. I'm all ears! I like hearing what the females have to say too!

2006-09-14 06:47:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I notice that most women go back out with their ex's. when the reason why the broke up was because he cheated why is that?

2006-09-14 06:46:54 · 14 answers · asked by Sky 1

ok. i've been going out with a girl for almost two years and now theres this other girl that i've known for about 5 years and we play music together and hang out and we get along really good and now i think i'm starting to like her and i don't know what to do.

looks have absolutely nothing to do with it they are both gorgeous but the one likes talking about far future things like babies and stuff and she likes to be like a goody good and the music girl doesn't like to think about it (like me) and both of us are very musical and we get along a lot better than me ane my girlfriend.

my girlfriend already knows about this because i told her but she thinks it'll wear off but if it doesn't than what should i do?

2006-09-14 06:46:15 · 6 answers · asked by Gdawg 2

my fiance died almost three months ago.. and I want to go out, and get involved with guys.. is it too soon? i feel like i'm betraying him if i even think about someone else..

2006-09-14 06:45:23 · 13 answers · asked by jazzybeth611 1

This weekend while having sex, my bf asked if I was with anyone while he was gone, he was out of state for a week. I told him no, I haven't been with anyone since we have been together (OH and this is the 3 or 4th time he has asked me this in the last 4 mo). Then he proceeds to tell me that he got head for a woman on Wed, this is the same woman he cheated on this wife with multiple times a few years back. He then says it was no big deal, I asked if they had sex and he said not, he had already had her as if that makes if okay and that it was just head. I know thing have been hard for him, after a long custody battle, he didn't get what he want, that happened on Tues and according to him he spent the next 2 days drunk and that is when I happened. I don't think there is ever an excuse for cheating, and have never had this happen to me. My friend says "at least he told you" although I think during sex is the worst time to tell someone something like that. I just want some advice.

2006-09-14 06:45:20 · 30 answers · asked by CHA_CHA 2

I've got Miller Lite, would Heineken be hotter?

2006-09-14 06:45:05 · 6 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

Which Is better? Physically? Mentally? Socially? Please... Discuss

2006-09-14 06:44:27 · 28 answers · asked by Persephone 2

2006-09-14 06:42:29 · 39 answers · asked by Bones 1

The only reason why i dont want to go is because im afraid that if i turn my head away for a second, then i wont be able to find her b/c she would look like everyone else? Should I cancel the trip?

2006-09-14 06:39:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

after i had a hard break and so did my best friend in our freshman year started to i guess you can say "turned to each other" and became more than friends. i was worried that i friendship would be ruined but i didnt stop because i always wanted to be more than friends. its weird because when we look at each thats all we think about is "god i wish i could just kiss her/him". but now that we've been at this thing for two years now im starting to think things are never ganna move any farther. i mean is he still not over his ex from more than a year ago[nope he still hasnt had a girlfriend sence then]. he took so long last year that i ended up getting sick of waiting for him an dwent back out with my ex then we broke up again it started up again. i mean im not ugly and hes not and everyone that knows about us thinks we'd be perfect together so what?! what is holding him back. i just want to ask him some times what are you so afraid of?!

2006-09-14 06:36:40 · 10 answers · asked by 2VonnyVonnVonn2 1

2006-09-14 06:36:25 · 9 answers · asked by Sasha 3

He uses the pet names, always notes how cute and adorable I am or am being at present time. When he has big life changing news and only 10 minutes out of his whole day to tell someone, I'm the one he spends the entire ten minutes telling. He will spend nearly the entire day with me from morning until night..and then 30 minutes later call to talk and say goodnight. If we're not together then he calls randomly to talk throughout the day.Before me he would never talk or spend time with ANYONE while he had his daughter, he welcomes me too all the time.He has other close friends he's had SEVERAL years and an active social life.He wants to be the one I feel closest too, He's straight and thinks I'm gorgeous. He says "you make me happy". He also jokes around and teases me about things in a playful manner often. He says he loves getting my reaction and what not. What is your most accurate judgement of his feelings towards me based on the examples and information I have given?

2006-09-14 06:34:42 · 7 answers · asked by Excuse Me Miss 1

SHE loves me nd i lover too ..but i feel little guilty about mine age iam 24 nd she is 18, she purposed me....mine society nd family are also rigid..type of people...advice me..
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2006-09-14 06:33:27 · 14 answers · asked by ashwani_geek 3

On the other hand...it's weird, isn't it?

2006-09-14 06:30:56 · 40 answers · asked by berta 1

girls in high school seemt o date for popularity the bad boys is their a age when they kind of change

2006-09-14 06:30:09 · 12 answers · asked by lztexan 3

Why can't they get the hint that they are of no value to me? I no longer want anything to do with them, yet they continue to beg for me, and the only time I ever comply is when I am horny and need a quick, no-strings-attached fu(k. And then I use them for sex and never speak to them again until I need to bust another nut in them. Why must these psychotic losers stalk me? Why must they call me at work when I am busy? Why must they call me at all? I should get a restraining order to keep them away from me!

2006-09-14 06:27:06 · 11 answers · asked by Bedroom Celebrity 3

It sucks that some people choose to give negative responses to questions that they don't understand or don't realize is a joke..If you don't think its funny..just move on...save the sarcasm...

f'kn tards man....

2006-09-14 06:25:19 · 8 answers · asked by roy 4

I have this friend of mine that I know likes me, and I love her! We both definitely want a relationship, but my question is would it be ok to allow the relationship to blossom from friendship into romance? I intend to allow my feelings become evident over time rather than rush in and tell her. I want to allow a strong foundation to develop. I really love her, and I have a strong feeling from above that she is "the one" for me. What do you think? Should I take time and let friendship grow into romance, or should I rush in and ask her out and go from there? Honest answers only please! Thanks...

2006-09-14 06:19:24 · 7 answers · asked by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2

ok so me and my bf have been datin for 4 months and we have like the perfect relationship but there is this girl and she is always messin with him...and it pisses me off what should i do?

2006-09-14 06:04:23 · 3 answers · asked by chscheer29020 1

wants to talk dirty n get their freak on online? i am a good dirty talker! and i have a medium yet quite thick steak.

2006-09-14 06:04:05 · 5 answers · asked by Todd A 1