I notice that most women go back out with their ex's. when the reason why the broke up was because he cheated why is that?
2006-09-14 06:46:54 · 14 answers · asked by Sky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They have no self respect
2006-09-14 06:48:23 · answer #1 · answered by CJM 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It is because a lot of woman are taught at a very young age that boys will be boys and woman are nurturers by trait. When you feel that that is how all men are or you feel that you do not deserve any better, it is more comfortable to be with someone familiar.
It is unfortunate that this is how it is, but as woman we do not help each other, Most females are very competitive towards each other and can be very caddy. Until we start building each other up instead of tearing each other down, this will continue to happen.
2006-09-14 13:52:16 · answer #2 · answered by Joy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because there ex's probably convince them they have changed and it was a mistake .. which we all know none of that is true... there could be many different reasons, self esteem , financial, and just dumb but I think deep down most women know they will do it again
2006-09-14 13:50:24 · answer #3 · answered by Muy Buena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they have low self esteem and they do not think they are good enough to be treated with respect. It is very sad but happens all the time.
2006-09-14 13:49:37 · answer #4 · answered by TrueLibra 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think this can be answered so blatantly like "They have no self respect". Maybe they have hope that situation can be resolved in a way that leads to change and forgiveness
2006-09-14 13:51:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
While it is better to leave him behind, some women figure the men will change. Some do and some don't. You can't force it. I would respect her decision but tell her you don't support her.
2006-09-14 13:48:22 · answer #6 · answered by cotterall&elaineadams 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is hard to turn off the emotions, plus bad self-esteem and fear of being without a boyfriend/husband.
2006-09-14 13:48:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No self worth... they are too worried about pleasing him that they end up doing so much damage to them selves.
2006-09-14 13:50:46 · answer #8 · answered by Virginia1228 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cuz they don't have any self esteem and do not respect them selves....
2006-09-14 13:50:46 · answer #9 · answered by on2try 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are stupid and just want to stick with the familiar. I don't believe in double dipping. One shot is all a cheater gets from me.
2006-09-14 13:49:00 · answer #10 · answered by bre 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋