after i had a hard break and so did my best friend in our freshman year started to i guess you can say "turned to each other" and became more than friends. i was worried that i friendship would be ruined but i didnt stop because i always wanted to be more than friends. its weird because when we look at each thats all we think about is "god i wish i could just kiss her/him". but now that we've been at this thing for two years now im starting to think things are never ganna move any farther. i mean is he still not over his ex from more than a year ago[nope he still hasnt had a girlfriend sence then]. he took so long last year that i ended up getting sick of waiting for him an dwent back out with my ex then we broke up again it started up again. i mean im not ugly and hes not and everyone that knows about us thinks we'd be perfect together so what?! what is holding him back. i just want to ask him some times what are you so afraid of?!
2006-09-14 06:36:40 · 10 answers · asked by 2VonnyVonnVonn2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
friends with benefits is a ridiculous concept. That just means that you f*ck eachother and f*ck other people withjout the other person getting mad or jealous. But the other person always gets mad or jealous no matter what. So whats the point? Might as well be in monagamous relationship.
2006-09-14 06:47:20 · answer #1 · answered by three6ty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that he hasn't gotten over a woman that dumped him a year ago is not a good sign. He is over-emotional and addicted to a person that doesn't care about him. Ask yourself is that's the kind of man you want to get involved with.
You are in a tough position. I don't see any alternative to drawing a line in the sand. If you want the relationship to go further, you have to do something about it. You're doing yourself a disservice by dragging this situation out.
FP
2006-09-14 06:46:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may want more, but you said it yourself he is not over his ex so why would you want to put yourself in that situation? He may have feelings for you, but respects the fact that he is not over his ex therefore he doesn't want to start a relationship with you. If you can no longer accept the fact that you are Friends with benefits than you need to end it and move on. If you choose not to move on than you may have to wait until he is over his ex.
2006-09-14 06:46:28 · answer #3 · answered by Kenya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, i am a guy and i guess nothing will change. you sound like you're on the way to disappointment if you expect more. things don't work like that. you've got to start out as you mean to go on. it's already too late.
2006-09-14 06:40:25 · answer #4 · answered by Boring 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, no I don't think anything is gonna change. Too late for that. If he wanted to be something more, it would have happened alright. Stop giving it to him.
2006-09-14 06:43:43 · answer #5 · answered by ConfusedK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why by the cow when the milk is free? Stop giving it away
2006-09-14 06:39:55 · answer #6 · answered by Joy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me and my girl started out as friends with benefits and i wound up wifing her. we both caught feelings for each other. it depends on how he feels, how you feel. we were friends with benefits for almost 2 months before i made it official so just be patient.
2006-09-14 06:46:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit him down and tell him how u feel, u never know he might feel da same way or he might not, but u won't know until u try, goodluck
2006-09-14 06:44:26 · answer #8 · answered by D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uggh I hate that cow and milk comment beyond words.
just talk to him about it and give him time.
2006-09-14 06:41:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him
2006-09-14 06:39:51 · answer #10 · answered by xsxsxsx36 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋