i have recently found out that my ex fiance has found a new lover and that new lover would just have to be my ex co worker and friend!! he tells everyone that she is his miracle. same thing he told me when we were together. but they gurl is a ***** i mean all she wants is money and that is exactly what he will give her...
you think he will ever realize that he has made a big mistake?
2006-09-14 06:47:42 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I understand how you must be feeling right now. But guys are like babies who are learning how to walk you have to let them trip, fall, and bump their *** so they can get the hang of it. He will probably realize that she is using him and he will have to learn from that experience. It sounds Harsh but you have to stand back and watch him fall, so that he may understand his error. Guys react to situations in a strange way. Believe it or not going out with your friend and using the same terms with her as he did with you is a way of him telling that he is hurt and that he may possibly still have some feelings for you. I dont know the whole story dont know why you guys broke up, but if he was your fiance then things must have been pretty serious and that is not something that you forget fron one night to the next. As I said they are like babies and like babies they always come back to their mommas for support. A piece of advice from me to you if he looks for you as friend, offer him you advice your comfort and your friendship show him that you are all grown up now.
2006-09-14 07:00:42 · answer #1 · answered by andia2amat 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like your ex was a player! Be thankful he's out of your life!
No, I don't think he'll ever realize he made a mistake. Why? Because he's probably going to have a million more "miracles".
2006-09-14 13:50:55 · answer #2 · answered by New mommy 2010! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some of them do. I went through the same thing once and at the end he regreted it then he wanted me back but it was too late because I had a new love. So don't give up your day is coming soon just be patient.
2006-09-14 13:54:30 · answer #3 · answered by jaybird 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you even care? He is your EX fiance for a reason. That said, what has he done that shows a lack of heart? It does not harm you in any way for him to be dating your friend, and it would make you feel better if you stopped telling yourself that it does.
2006-09-14 13:52:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The big mistake is the amount of time, energy and emotion you continue to invest in a guy you broke up with. Regardless of whether you think the new woman is a bad choice, he is free to be with her.
2006-09-14 13:50:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some guys have a heart other just want sex. So if she is a fine piece of *** that is what he wants. I do not think you will want him anyways after this. If she finds someone else better, he will move along to them. So do not worry about him and move on.
2006-09-14 13:49:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, guys don't have a heart. They are selfish and only want what is best for them. No amount of prodding and nagging and neediness will change that.
You are obsessed with someone that doesn't care about you. You have given him all your power. Is that how you want to live your life?
Let it go.
FP
2006-09-14 13:50:36 · answer #7 · answered by F. Perdurabo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all yeah we have a heart, secondly if he dumped u u stil wana go out with him again? dun think so
so forget abuot him at least u know him well n ur sure u dun wanna be invloved with that person for ur entire life
2006-09-14 13:50:47 · answer #8 · answered by unknown_kool_unknown 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes let him find out on his own he is a big boy now let him find out how she is let him find out the hared way. he will thank you later for been there for him later ok good luck take care ok
2006-09-14 13:58:33 · answer #9 · answered by crazyberta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Typical guy...thinking with the "little head".
2006-09-14 13:50:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋