I have been dating the same guy for 4 1/2 years now and I really love but I don't know if I could ever trust him again. Last year I met him a chicken place for just a few minutes while I was waiting on my food and from nowhere he said he had to go so he left and I thought nothing about it. He kissed me and a few seconds later a car was chasing behind him with 2 females in it honking at him. I recongnized the girl that was driving from work and then she turned around and got out the car to talk to me. She asked me if I was the guy girlfriend and I said yes and she said for how long and I told her for 3yrs. She said that she has been with him for 2 and he told her that he and I werent together anymore(we all work at the same hospital and they both work in the same department). When he and I 1st started talking I just got out of a 1 1/2 year relationship and wasnt really looking for anyone especially at work and he was involved with someone else. not finish will send part 2
2006-09-14 07:05:20 · 13 answers · asked by tnek 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You got love for the man someone that is special to you and that you have been with for 3 years. Now it turns out the man you love has been with someone else for 2 years so that means he is a faithful man at all and sure can't be trusted. Why should you continue to waste your time on this piece of S!*&(your man). He aint worth you fighting over or for. You deserve a better man that is going to treat you like a woman supposed to be treated. You need to move on. Love hurts and you'll going hurt because of this but you got to realize that you don't need to go thru this with him. Move on!!!
2006-09-14 07:18:54 · answer #1 · answered by BabyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no need for part 2, no matter what it is you know that you need to dump him the trust is something that you can't never get back, specially when it hits you right in the face. Why would you even go back with him with the other women telling you that she was going out with him too. Dump him NOW, before you get hurt even more.
2006-09-14 14:17:13 · answer #2 · answered by lluvia2wcc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you've been dating him for over four years means that you have let him take advantage of you for that long. How much longer were you planning on dating him?
Also, the intensity and frantic nature of your words indicates that you are a bit obsessed with this fellow.
You should pretend like nothing happened and ask him to marry you. Say you've been dating long enough and it's time to take this relationship to the next level.
After he finishes stuttering, tell him you're moving on.
Don't obsess on him. Don't let him take your power from you.
FP
2006-09-14 14:14:19 · answer #3 · answered by F. Perdurabo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can you trust him now or ever again? how can the other girl trust him? I would wonder if there wasn't a third girl. sorry, but life is short and there are plenty of good men out there. start looking.
2006-09-14 14:14:12 · answer #4 · answered by honiebyrd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds already like the guy is playing you like a fiddle, you helped him (cheat????) the first time, and now he doing the same thing to you that you helped him do before. best idea is not to date anyone u work with
2006-09-14 14:12:21 · answer #5 · answered by DOAnderson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy is a loser and he is using you- i dont even need to hear the rest- you cannot trust him- he hid that from you for tooooo long
2006-09-14 14:08:54 · answer #6 · answered by shannon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is doing what most guys do and is seeing mulitiple women. if he actually committed to you and is only supposed to be with you it is quite clear by what you have written this is not happening. he is 2 timing you dump him and move on is my suggestion.
2006-09-14 14:13:52 · answer #7 · answered by George T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look i have been there and when i faced my bf he begged for days and had anervous break down coz he wanted me with him and i made up with him and guess what.. he did it again... and again and again.. so who did it once will do it twice so dont ever go easy on these things
2006-09-14 14:16:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think we need part 2 for this.. you need to get rid of him ASAP.. he won't change... these are all big excitement for him
2006-09-14 14:17:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes a loser leave him now he has been playin u gurl you better leave him now
2006-09-14 14:18:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋