They were together for a year. She's a germ freak, they broke up because he is an alcoholic and occasional drug abuser. They have been apart for a year. He got his 2nd OUI, BUT got into AA 11months ago. They have been emailing each other. she went over to his house, drunk with condoms, threw up, he said he wasnt ready to have sex again. But there was some "penetration" without either having an orgasm...oral sex with out protection... she said she blacked out most of the night. Does it make him a bad guy to allow this "penetration, without calling it sex" while she is obviously drunk? I told her, he should have sensed that she was drunk, and after she puked, he could have put her in the shower, wrapped her in a blanket on the couch to sleep it off. Others say she is responsible for her actions, but I wonder where he was the sober one, is he somehow the "responsible" one knowing that in the year they were together she would not engage in this kind of behavior without protection.
2006-09-04
16:53:09
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littledrummergirl
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