You are hanging out with two guys who are friends, one of whom you are kind of interested in, and the other one you aren't really attracted to at all.
The one who you're not really attracted to asks you on a date, and seems determined to spend time with you. He's nice and doesn't creep you out, but again, you're not all that interested in him. What do you say?
2006-09-04 16:49:36 · 7 answers · asked by SQRD 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
would you say yes and make it out to be a friendship?
2006-09-04 16:51:00 · update #1
Well, why play mind games and lead someone on to only hurt them. You are not attracted to them and that is that. They should move on to someone who is attracted to them and you should go out with the guy that you are attracted to - it only makes sense.
2006-09-04 16:52:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooh.. tough question. Well, I'm not one to say no to a guy when he asks me out unless I really can't stand him. I would probably go out with the friend but maybe mention I'm interested in someone else along the way. Drop it casually or something. I'd try to make sure he gets that it's a friendship without ramming it down his throat.
2006-09-05 00:02:43 · answer #2 · answered by bunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well a perspective from an older female..,I would say yes since he is that interested..,he would care about and for me.Yes I definately would go out with him..,it would probably turn into something great.Good luck.
2006-09-04 23:56:13 · answer #3 · answered by halfbright 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weren't sure of ? These guys are friends with each other, right? One you'd like to see, other just be friends. ---- Be honest with him. No reason to play games. But ask yourself this. Who can you talk to, who listens to you. who is there for you. Maybe you sunglasses are to dark to see who is right in front of you.
2006-09-05 00:00:44 · answer #4 · answered by Liz R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u should give him a chance and if u feel its not working them say if we can just be friends. but if ur heart absolutely does not want him just say no that u feel u r better off just being friends.
2006-09-05 00:08:08 · answer #5 · answered by ♥maibelisagift4rmgod♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, that way you won't hurt his feelings.
2006-09-05 00:08:47 · answer #6 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say no thank you dont suck face with someone you dont like its just rude and gross good way to make youre self feel like crap
2006-09-04 23:52:40 · answer #7 · answered by lismo2121 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋