what should i do?

Question

I know this guy for 2 years. He is my best friend's brother. I learn that he has crush on me when I first met him but at that time he had a girlfriend. Then, they broke up because of some reasons. Her brother started to show that he is interested in me more ever since he broke up. But I keep my feeling from him because I am not very sure whether he is the one. As time passed by,I started to develop more feeling towards him. The reason I avoid him because I am afraid he starts to approach me so that he can forget his ex.The way we go out together are always been helped by his sister. His sister, on the other hand, does not know how I feel. I start to tell her bits of it when she moved to another town for further study. Now, I lose contact with that guy. I do not know what I should do. Should I send him a massage, asking him how has he been since his sister gone?But we have never call or even message each other before. Yet, there is something inside me want me to just say hi to him :(

Answer 1

there's nothing wrong with saying hey whats up that will open that door for more communication between you two go for it

Answer 2

You should always keep in contact with your friends. This gentleman that you speak of, sure why not send him a message. You should tell him how you feel and see if he still feels the same way. At least you will know where you stand without going throught the added worry. If you don't you will always wonder "what if".