Should I give me a "Second Chance"?

Question

I was with this guy on and off for a year and we were not serious. Then he dropped me for another girl. We remained netural and we still talked to each other. It has been a year later and he had broke up with his girlfriend for a few months. Recently, he asked me to be his serious girlfriend. He keeps on telling me that he had made a mistake and that he wants me to give him a second chance. I kinda have this "insane" feeling that he really DID changed! I don't know what to do because I am afraid of getting hurt again but at the same time I don't wanna miss out on a "possible" something. I am not really sure of how I feel about him. I think that I don't feel the same for him but I think that I still do. I am so unsure of myself. I don't know what to do! Can someone give me some advice!! HELP!!

Answer 1

My ex husband dropped his first girlfriend for me and they have been married for 13 years now. I think taking the relationship slowly without sex and developing a friendship first will let you know if he has changed. Many do not. Make him prove himself first.

Answer 2

Same thing happened to me, except the guy didn't have a serious girlfriend (just girls he dated shortly). I still loved him even during the "neutral" times you mentioned....he came back to me....said he wanted to take things seriously, that he had changed, and he realized what he really wanted during our time apart. I was skeptical and unsure, but I wanted to believe in him and in a possible "us", so I gave it a chance....but told him it was his LAST chance, and he needed to prove to me that he had matured (I wasn't mean or pushy about it--I just told him)....and he would need to be patient and reassuring if I ever felt uneasy about things. Well he promised, and things have worked out....he is still "him" but he matured. We've been together-no breaks- for close two years now (been kinda rocky lately cause of long distance--when we first dated it was not long distance, and then circumstances pulled us geographically apart). It was much different than the year we dated, and "neutral" year we took apart before hand. However, I think both people have to want it, both committed partners, and both patient. Don't jump into and take things fast.....take your time, feel it out. Do what your heart feels is best. Pray about it. I don't know you or him, so I don't want to tell you to absolutely do it, but I think you will make the best decision for you. Good luck!

Answer 3

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Answer 4

its ok to give second chances but 3rds, 4ths, and so on arent! you need to really sit down and talk to him and make sure he knows what he wants and then maybe that'll give you a clue on how you really feel. if you like him, go for it but dont fall for him too fast because thats how you end up getting hurt if something does go bad. but that doesnt mean enter the relationship feeling like something bads gonna happen. just trust but dont give in completely untill you know its going to be ok. good luck!!!

Answer 5

First thing that comes to mind is you will have to go through the same thing again, but it's up to you if it's worth the risk, and he may have changed. Only you know.. Good Luck!!

Answer 6

Good question. Follow your heart but be warned, sometimes the grass isn't always greener on the other side.

Answer 7

figure out what you want. and with w/e you decide, make sure you dont regret it. and if you think he DID change and you think hes worth it, then go for it. but if you dont then make sure your not living in "what ifs". good luck.