Umm, advice anyone?

Question

I hate to be all poor me but, How do I get over the one I was meant to be with?
I mean It feels like I can't breathe anymore..

Answer 1

I've been there and it will take a while to get over it. Keep yourself busy and throw out all of the things that remind you of the past. Take a break from dating for a while and try to think of all the negative things about your ex. This will help.

Answer 2

I can totally relate to how you feel because I have felt the same way for the last 7 years. I met the one I was meat to be with when I was 17. I am now 24. Through that time we have dated other people, I had a child with someone else and no matter who came and went in my life deep down I knew he was the one. After all these years we recently started dating again a few weeks ago. Maybe it is too early to tell, but I always knew we would find one another again. I guess what I am trying to say is for now, be sad. If another prospect comes along, don't pass it by, but don't give up all hope either. If it is really meant to be with this person, it will happen, even if it takes seven years. Good luck and be optimistic.

Answer 3

How are you so sure that he's the one you are meant to be with?
Are your answers "yes" to all the questions below:
1. Do you know ALL about him, including his weaknesses? Are you prepared to accept and live with these weaknesses?
2. Has he ever accepted your views that are different from his?
3. Is he sincere and honest with you?
4. Has his actions always been supported by you?
5. Does he understand you so well that he will also accept your weaknesses?
6. Does he love you without any conditions?
Then, he's the one for you.

Answer 4

you'll feel like that for a long time, infact you probably wont ever get over that one you were meant to be with!! its the truth. true love never dies and love period just never really goes away. no one can tell you how to get over this person because it may be impossible but what i can tell you is that its going to be real hard but you need to be strong. alot of things will make you think of this person like songs, movies, or different places you'd go together but you have to be strong. you'll realize during this time that you have alot of people who care about you and that are willing to help you get through this and you dont need to shut them out because the saddest time will be when you're by yourself. so stick with your friends and family because they wont break up with you or anything like that, they'll be there! good luck and sorry for your loss, i know it hurts trust me.

Answer 5

You are mourning what you thought could have been. Time will heal all wounds. There is nothing that can be said to repair how you feel, time is the only answer. Been there, done that, believe me. Listen to some upbeat music, or even try listening to some sad loved lost music (like Nick Lachey's 'What's left of me') sounds cheesey but it will help you heal.

Remember this: Why would you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you? This helped me through a rough time and I realized that I deserved to have someone who wanted me just as much as I wanted them, AND that I was worth that much. It is all to do with self esteem.

Answer 6

If he was the one you were meant to be with, you would still be with him. All of the best times in my life have been made possible by the worst times in my life. You will survive, and when you look back on this experience you will realize what a life lesson it was, and you will be grateful.

Answer 7

nicely basically tell them that today it really is your important priority. basically say that we could continuously do some thing else at my homestead because i think obligated to this human being. tell them our idea of a sleepover, that ought to nicely be thrilling. desire you've a good time. Oh and is the toddler basically born? perchance you are able to take the toddler in the stroller and walk around the mall with your associates....

Answer 8

If ur meant to be with him then just cool down and keep in touch as friends he will come back around

Answer 9

if he was the one you were meant to be with, you would be.... I know it hurts and breaks your heart.... but if he is out, for what ever reason, that just means there is room for Mr. Right now.... so greave and mourn, dont push urserlf, let the emotions flow..... then when you are ready...... pick urself up and move on..... if you cry to long you may just miss the RIGHT one......God bless

Answer 10

Its hard but he wasn't the one if he left and you will work that out when Mr right does come along and you can show him off in front of your old boyfriend.