I'm out with a guy friend. This night he asks me to meet him to discuss maybe having a possible relationship. Said the bar is not the appropriate place to discuss it. I'm thinking, this is great. Respect, consideration etc. Then as he is talking to me, a girl walks past with a backless jumper on her and he looks her up and down. Bang! I feel terrible, like all the intensity of what he was saying was an act. Generally I have noticed that when he is nervous or with men, his eyes jump from one woman to another. I thought it was a macho thing with blokes to cover his nerves in social situations. This was a shock though. I mean he was totally intense with me, we also have been mates for years so I would not expect him to disrespect me like that. Why come on so strong and then gawp at another woman as she passed? Is this normal or should I be offended?
2007-11-29
03:10:20
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susieboo
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