Other - Family & Relationships - 30 March 2007

My boyfriend and I broke up 5 months ago, but we still sleep together a lot (we used to live together.) We still fight all the time, and we still have the same love/hate relationship.

Last night I was at our old apartment with him and I couldn't stop crying. I was up till 7 am just bawling and I don't know why. What can I do to feel better. This guy is significantly older than me-maybe that's why it was so hard? Anyone, please, if you have any ideas on how not to feel awful, please let me know.

2007-03-30 06:02:13 · 3 answers · asked by brass in pocket 3

i live in new york and im 18 and my girlfrined is 15 and her mom told her that if she didnt stop seeing me should would call the police. can she have me arrested if i didnt have any sexual relations with her that she knows of?

2007-03-30 05:46:02 · 15 answers · asked by BoSox 007 3

You know the mate is cheating on you, but you stay and make excuses...why? You know your in a dead end job and need to move on...but you don't...why? What happened in your lifetime that made you the door mat that you are today? I seriously want to know...Perhaps your answer to this question can help someone else. Be honest with your answers no one on here knows you so be true...to YOU!

2007-03-30 05:39:21 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My dog can tell when I am blue, and she'll just sit right next to with her head near mine. That makes me happy. And sweets! What about you?

2007-03-30 05:27:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

my parents want me to bethis good little mormon girl adn i dont agree with the religon but if i tell them i dont want to be mormon they will send me to a grouphome. im 16 and i dont want to wait till im 18 to be able to be who i am without getting in trouble

2007-03-30 05:26:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like this guy which is my friend m friend karoline says i should not tell him but i want him to know how i feel about him.The thing is that i cant tell him b/c he might not want to be my friend and the second thing is
he thinks i like someone els. I just don't know what to do. Help me Please

2007-03-30 05:18:22 · 11 answers · asked by cool cat 1

or to the side of it?

2007-03-30 04:11:57 · 55 answers · asked by Samantha T 2

I've been dating my girlfriend for 4 years already. We are both 29. I love her so much. She loves me so much also. Our 9 years anniversary is coming up soon. I want to know what to get her for our 4 year anniversary so she would feel really special.

2007-03-30 03:59:26 · 7 answers · asked by Daft Punker 1

I decided to stand up for myself with my inlaws. BIG MISTAKE. Now everyone is mad at everyone and I don't know what to do. I am NOT sorry for what I said and now even more hateful, rude things have been said directed at me. All I told them was that I was pregnant and not broken and will make up my own mind. They are now trying to use my children as pawns in a screwed up game. I am also being told I stand between my husbands and his fathers relationship. We live across the street from him and hubby and him work at the same company. I don't understand. What would you suggest I do from here? How long would you take it before you just gave up? Thanks

2007-03-30 03:51:54 · 12 answers · asked by Mrs. Always Right 5

its the second time and he said well talk about it later. what do u think hes gonna say? what should i do? help im 14

2007-03-30 03:39:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-30 03:39:17 · 15 answers · asked by taodkiller 1

1. you could try to get onto welfare, get my own place and have to pay for bills, medication over $300, and stay in the city with handi transit and family.
or
2. go out two hours from the city to be with your boyfriend who will only let you stay if you give him 500 a month, quit smoking and get rid of your dog, but you'll have to pay your own bills and such. plus you can't go anywhere cause your out no where, and you don't have handi transit or family out there.
what would you do. i need to find out some good advice for someone i know. i try to think about it but it's hard to decide you know. please help me solve this problem???

2007-03-30 03:38:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I totally disagree on how my 14 year old daughter should be punished. He thinks it's okay to spank her and I say she's too old. He thinks there's nothing wrong with pulling down her pants, too and this is where I say NO WAY!! It has become a HUGE problem in our life, as my daughter is constantly in trouble for her smart mouth and messy room. The fact that he's her stepdad factors in, too. (even though he raised her since she was a baby). I'm constantly having to be in the middle of them both. My daughter has even accused him of purposely putting trash in her room just to get her in trouble, and I think it may be true, and she swears to me that it's true. They absolutely hate each other, what can I do?? It's to the point where I've had to tell my 15 year old son to watch over them when I'm not there so that my husband doesn't do anything I've told him not to (spank her).

2007-03-30 03:30:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

my question is for any real honest people who can give me some websites that might talk about how to improve yourself

like how to act better in front of girls and how to act generally without putting me down

basically im just looking for some self help websites that are good

thank you for any answers

2007-03-30 03:16:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi. This isn't really directly about single parenting although my mom is a single parent. And I'm an only child and I really need advice, actually I need counseling but I'm too embarrased to go. Anyways, I'm 24, my mom had my life completly planned for me. College first, find a great career, then meet a guy (who she imagined in her head also that is Mr. Perfect), get married and have a kid or two. That's exactly what she told me. And here I am, did one year of college (I'm ADD, college is near impossible for me), I live with my fiance and have -oh my god!-"premarital sex", and I'm not rich of course. My family is so hard core baptist conservative Republicans, I've never met anybody like them in the real world. My cousins who are my competition in life to be as good as they are and are my same age, one is a aeronautical engineer for Rolls-Royce making over 150k a year, one works for the Department of Labor and writes speeches for the President, and the other one I'm not exactly sure what she does but she's married to a pastor and vacationning in Italy right now, need I say more. I, work at a book distributor and make minimum wage and I'm not with Mr. Perfect. All I ever hear from her is how much I'm "tearing her heart out" by the way I'm living my life and she keeps telling me about this great "plan she and God had for my life and it just hurts her so much that I won't just go move back in with her and live my life according to 'Gods plan' and go to college, find a great career and then meet a great guy". I think I'm doing pretty good in life I'm renting a small house, I have everything I need in life including a 54' TV and concert stereo system (rentway) and I'm in love with a really nice guy who wants to marry me and have kids but I have to keep hearing from her how much it "hurts her to watch me destroy my life". And I just can't take it anymore. I'm so depressed and she makes me that way. I know she just wants the best for me and I know her way is the better way of life, that's just not the life that I could live up to and circumstances, and yes mistakes, brought me to where I am now but I'm happy now except I can never really be happy because her guilt won't let me be. What can I say to her to make her understand and love me for me and not who she wanted me to be. And how can I not let the burden she puts on me make me miserable? She lives in Leave It To Beaver world and just doesn't get it. Oh by the way, she's a drug and alchohol counselor, she's never done either in her life but whatever. So me drinking a beer on Friday night is one of the biggest sins in the world. Anyways, what can I say to her and how do I not let this tear me apart?

2007-03-30 02:57:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

seem's like all he look's at are young women, like 21 to 25. i'm 39 and am in good shape, haven't changed that much since we meet! but he like's to look all the time at younger women, he says it's a guy thing. what do you think?

2007-03-30 02:22:47 · 9 answers · asked by joeriv 1