Other - Family & Relationships - 29 January 2007

My husband and I married almost 3 months ago. He's changing day to day. When we got married he became more controlling. Not jealous or following me or anything like that but, definitely more controlling. He told me numerous times before we got married that he was going to stop smoking (pot) and even tried and did. Now that we are married he does it all of the time and I asked him why he tried to stop b4 we got married and now he smokes all the time and doesn't care how it makes me feel, he told me now we are married and I can c the true him. Also, he won't take responsibility for anything he does wrong, it is always my fault. If I try to talk about issues we have he says that I'm just trying to start an argument. Also, I can come home from work and if he feels like being touched or talked to then I can touch or talk to him but, if not and I try to he gets mean about me leaving him alone. I'm a church girl and he used to hold the cuss words in front of me. Now, he just lets them fly and even calls me whore and tells me to shut the f*c* up quite often. Last night we were watching a movie on 2 seperate couches (always snuggled during a movie b4 we got married), I asked him 2 come lay on the couch with me and he sayed he might get 2 comfy and fall asleep. Then, when it came time 2 go 2 bed he was extremely awake & ready for sex. I said no, I was too tired ( just hurt from him not snuggling w/ me). I told him he doesn't spend time with me like he did b4 we got married. I told him that I come home from work and try 2 talk 2 him but, he just watches T.V. or plays PS2, he said that I start talking 2 him while he is trying 2 watch something. I told him that I don't care about T.V. I've missed him all day and would like 2 talk 2 him. He said that I can talk to him on commercials. On Saturday, we got into an argument and he punched the steering wheel in our truck and broke it. A few minutes later he told me he wanted a divorce. Of course he didn't want a divorce, that was just so I would beg him not to leave and I did. Sunday turned out about the same way as Saturday, he said he was leaving for a while and I told him that I don't care what happens I was just tired of the arguing and asked him not to leave. He stayed. Yesterday, I felt like he was pushing his control limits a little. With a comment here or there about something I could or could not do. I'm worried now that he thinks he has a lot more control over me. Since I'm the one that asked him to stay. Any thoughts? Also, he made a comment about me calling and talking to my parents all of the time. I talk to my parents about twice a day at the most and it's usually not even when I'm with him. Any thoughts

2007-01-29 01:28:39 · 1 answers · asked by Dsoftball 1

Or would you sacrifice a person for that happiness???

What or who would it be???

2007-01-29 01:18:36 · 28 answers · asked by Forlorn Hope 7

Or sacrificed family for ambitions???

And found that the sacrifices were just too high???

2007-01-29 01:17:04 · 8 answers · asked by Forlorn Hope 7

I live in the United States and my girlfriend is from Malaysia. (Here on a student visa)

2007-01-29 00:58:48 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

What are the possibilities of your partners coming back to you?

2007-01-29 00:47:38 · 17 answers · asked by sheneverhappened 1

how do we know is the girl is having a sex or having a multiple sex at times?is on the she walks?i mean on her behind,(if possible may change)and possibly on her physical appearance?(not the pregnantcy)can someone share your oppinion on this one,i just though to knowing this stuffs because i'll never known whats my gf's doing when i turning back.. and all other things..^^

2007-01-29 00:44:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ive been with my b/f for 3yrs this year i love him very much, we have a child together which we had quite early on in the relationship. When we first got a flat together everything was ok then baby came along and we was both getting tired and argued alot.so we moved to a house which is now easier for me to go out with baby, we still argued and my b/f moved out then i got paranoid & started sending him fake emails from his x he found out and said there is no way were sorting this out, i threatend to kill myself cause he dont believe i love him. Since then we have sorted things out and were finally becoming a family again, but he is distant with me and blames me for everything, our baby had his phone this morning and now the sim is missing i get the blame. he also asks me to go out withhim i say yes then he says dont want u to come, he meets his friend every thurs n is going out 2 days on top of that i dont get to go out cause my family n friends live away i feel like s**t cause of this

2007-01-29 00:36:03 · 2 answers · asked by kittyprobs 1

When i was younger i had a big crush on this guy who trained at my gym. He wasn't interested in me as i was quite a bit younger than him.

I used to see him all the time then eventually i saw him as like an uncle figure, whom i cared about.

I forgot about the crush and i have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year now, and im very much in love with him. We are happy together and have a healthy relationship.

Recently this guy has come back on the scene and he gives me hugs, and openly tells people how beautiful i am. On tuesday, he wouldn't leave me alone chatting, and telling me im pretty and stuff.

I wasn't sure if he was flirting, as it didn't seem to have a sexual content, it was more affectionate.

I think about him more since this event, and im worried if this is normal as i used to have quite a big crush on him.

Please help!

Many thanks in advance.

x

2007-01-29 00:17:16 · 11 answers · asked by bettiboop 2