Friends - March 2007

So, I'm in this situation where.....I'd like to believe they're my friends. They're nice to me, they talk to me, they treat me "well".....

But then they do things together.....and alwys accidently-on-purpose forget to invite me. These 'people' act so kind and excited around me, then they will go MIA on me for weeks at a time. I'll call them on the phone, and they'll NEVER answer it. I honestly dn't know why I even have a phone. They have probably never even thought of talking to me on the phone. I'm never invited with them to go anywhere. and anytime I do actually hang out with them, they can only talk about the 'kck-*** party' they had the other night.....the one I was clearly not invited to. They'll talk about how great it was, right to my face.....KNOWING THAT I WASN'T THERE. Have they no shame? I do what everyone else tells me, I act myself..... yet it just seems like they regard me as an embarrassment.

Am I just being overly paranoid? What is wrong with this.....?

2007-03-24 15:35:45 · 1 answers · asked by Lalavava 1

what if you were alone no friends no family no one what would you do.

2007-03-24 15:33:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

yeah, basically she was my "friend" and i've been trying to get back with my ex and she calls him EVERY NIGHT and tries to talk to him and get him to like her, and then she calls me and tells me about how much he "misses her" and "loves her".... and SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND. grrrr i hate her!!! obviously we're not friends anymore, and i told her to eff off, but she's still talking to him allllllllll theeeee time. and right now they're "just friends", but so are me and him. i hope she isn't saying bad and untrue shizz about me to him. but yeah, basically i hate her and want to ruin her life. any advice?

2007-03-24 15:33:13 · 10 answers · asked by scoot 1

2007-03-24 15:30:06 · 4 answers · asked by lamb 1

me and this bratty girl are aiming each other and i need mean comebacks.no bad words please.she thinks all of the sudden i am her friend and that she is a big brat and she thinks she is all that but my freind S.O and V.R are her only friends.any cool comebacks but no bad words or i will report

2007-03-24 15:29:21 · 1 answers · asked by Jibjab 3

A long time best friend of mine, fell in love with me and never told me. When i got married, it tore him appart, so to try and hide it he got married and it ended misserabley. I've been married for 4 years now, and now he says we can't be best friends, because it hurts him to much to not be with me. Is there something I can do to keep his friendship? We've been through to much, to stop being friends now.

2007-03-24 15:25:22 · 3 answers · asked by lynda_Luv 2

Hope you all will help me. See, last year got 1 girl in my MsN ignore me suddenly, i dont know why. So got 1 time i told her i like her in MsN but she still never reply me at all. Let call her - XX. But this year, i found a girl that i really like, not only her beauty but also what she has in her heart. Lets call her - YY. But XX and YY are best friends, and YY know about the last year inccident. This year, i and YY in same class and most of the time we sit together during classes and i will keep ask her about homeworks. I dare not ask her other things at all. And one time, she suddenly told me about XX's school results and i think that she is just helping me to get close to XX and has no feeling on me. But i still want to tell her, should i tell her throught friendster or directly tell her. The problem is she always surrounded by her friends. And if she say No, how i gonna face her next time?

2007-03-24 15:25:11 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-24 15:23:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Every day I turn on my computer and have from 100 to 300 "exclusive" (300 exclusive??) offers to make my "man-hood" either bigger or wider. What makes all you think someone my age needs or wants your help? I see more than half of you are female.....maybe it's your man that needs this more than I?

2007-03-24 15:21:32 · 5 answers · asked by Floyd C 1

i feel like i have alot of negative energy cause no one wants to be around me, no one ever calls me to hang out. I'm such a good person, what can i do to get pple to call me and ask ME if I wanna hang out??

2007-03-24 15:19:10 · 4 answers · asked by Ethan A 1

i have a friend and we talk to each other alot. we say like i luv you and she says it back to me on aim. she already knows that i love her to death. what are some ways to get her liking me. i live in her neighborhood and we go to the same school. shes in 8th grade and im in 7th grade. and btw im indian and shes white

2007-03-24 15:17:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi this is kinda a second part to my issue,
he's had a reputation of leading girls on but he's never gone as far with them as he has with me, what does that mean????
we met in high school we would always look at each other and he said he wanted to go places with me.. but he never calls!!! he deosnt even txt me and when i said i might be moving then he got all sad... I just dont know...

2007-03-24 15:04:37 · 3 answers · asked by Parachutes 4

Okay i know she's shy but still....she talks to me on bebo a lot but when i met up with her this evening she seemed distant...a lot more than usual, so i came to the conclusion that

A she actually doesn't like me

B she thinks i still fancy her (not as much as i used to)

C she may be attracted to me (didn't seem like it!!)

oddly enough she did quietly laugh at something i said to her friend.

2007-03-24 15:04:00 · 3 answers · asked by dodge 1

I have a lot on my mind, and no one to talk to. I've seen the hotlines for teens, but have no access to a phone at the moment; is there a chat service, and can you tell me what it is?

2007-03-24 15:04:00 · 4 answers · asked by Yep 2

For my sweet 16, i want to go paintballing with a bunch of friends, both girls and guys.

the thing is, three of the guys im planning on inviting, i dont talk to all that much because we just met this year and were just like school friends.

would it be weird, since i dont really talk to one of them, to invite him since im inviting his best friend and were also kinda friends?

also since there will be conflict with two of the guys [one doesnt like the other, its stupid] im planning on inviting a mediator whos friends with all three of the guys im inviting.


but my major question is, would it be weird/akward to invite the two guys who i dont really talk to all that much?
i have about a month to really start talking to them more, so do you think thatd be a good idea, to start building a stronger friendship with them if i want to invite them to my party without it being really akward?

2007-03-24 15:03:29 · 10 answers · asked by pray for sanityx 2

i go to my moms work everyday its and elementary and eveyone is smaller than me but theres this little kid dat follows me around an hes really annoying.

2007-03-24 14:58:54 · 24 answers · asked by Ely 2

2007-03-24 14:56:31 · 5 answers · asked by J.Mahavithya 1

Her boyfriend was lfirting with two blond girls at a get together last week.
She's way to in love with him to even believe me.
I tried emailing her but she doesnt response back.
This girl and boy is pissing me off especially her fake boyfriend.

Her so called boyfriend and i fight everytime we see each other, i cant even be in the same room with him without starting a fight.

2007-03-24 14:55:32 · 4 answers · asked by The Sweetest Sin Princess 3

I get stomped on.... and tricked at my new school just because i am emo. Plz tell me what i should do to get these ppl to understand that i am still a person just like them... i just have a different opinion on life.

2007-03-24 14:52:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

So, last night, Shelby called me and asked me to go to her house. I get homesick really easily and so I said no. Then my other friend Elizabeth came over to her house. They're kinda bossy and so I tryed to be nice to them while saying no, but they were trying to force me to go. Then they threatened to hurt me when we see eachother at recess if I dont say yes, then i tryed to explain to them that you cant force people to do stuff. Ugh, They're getting way out of hand now. Theyre' trying to control my life, basiclly! I dont know what to do..

2007-03-24 14:51:10 · 17 answers · asked by ♠Jefffie♠ 2

i just get in the fight with my friend and we try to get back along with each other but how can we do that please help me out, and she is my good friend.

2007-03-24 14:50:36 · 1 answers · asked by christy 1

i'm a very introverted person. i have a very small group of friends. I dislike many people just because they annoy me (even when most other people think they are the nicest person ever). At school, most people describe me as quiet. I'm not stuck up. I'm just very quiet. I avoid talking to people other than my very best friends. I have a very difficult time speaking to people I don't know. It takes me forever to open up to people (usually years). I'm only in the 6th grade and as I get older it's getting worse. Does anyone out there have some advice for me. I honestly am not stuck up, I just have a difficult time talking to people. I'd much rather just be alone with my thoughts.

2007-03-24 14:48:47 · 18 answers · asked by 569™ 4

2007-03-24 14:48:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

She has fallen in love with this guy and i don't want her to get hurt anymore. Do i tell her or let her find out for herself?

2007-03-24 14:46:46 · 7 answers · asked by chik4jesus 2

i had a friend in Jr. High and High school (this was about 15 years ago)..well, this girl went off and went "wild"... partying, smoking, having sex...we drifted apart as friends- but i kept in touch with her parents throughout the years.
in 2005, through her mother i found out this former friend was pregnant and due around the same time i was...we got in contact through email (we live 2500 miles apart) and have emailed through the years.
she recently had another child this past January 9th...and i found out today that that baby girl died! they said the (the mother) found her in her crib not breathing, with blood on her nose...they are saying it was SIDS.
after thinking about some former emails between us---i think maybe (the mother) may have done something to harm the child...not anything out of anger/rage/hate...but out of depression/munchousen symdrom(sp?) type thing.

how can i bring this up to her parents w/o being ostrasized from the family?

2007-03-24 14:40:41 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

My twelve year old neighbor, Isabella, keeps staring at me on a daily basis. I do not mind but what could she possibly want? I am eighteen by the way.

2007-03-24 14:39:04 · 4 answers · asked by leged56 5

What can I say, I am a sappy girl. I like to hear about sappy things (such as why people are in love).

2007-03-24 14:36:13 · 7 answers · asked by quintons_mommy2004 3

My gf of about 4 months cheated on me while she was on vacation for 3 weeks.
Before she left we really said we loved each other. After talking a bunch her first week away she comepletely ignored me and I knew something was wrong. The worst part was she came home she acted very cold and posted an internet blog joking about a "fling" and with pictures with many guys. I got mad at her because I thought she was just being insensitive, and we talked about breaking up. At that point things suddenly relaxed and got so much better, maybe too much, because then she slipped out the truth.
After telling the truth, I was mad but tried to be understanding. She cried and apologized, but she wouldn't take down the blog. We didn't break up at then, but soon after I wrote her a bad email and we broke up. We both apologized and we will meet today to make peace.
I really think she has acted terrible, but I still want to be really nice to her...i was always so good to her. Am I being too nice?

2007-03-24 14:34:39 · 14 answers · asked by acural7 1

1 of my frndz is the greatest and he always helps me with everything and hes been VERY depressed and i want to help him alot cuz hes helped me through the hardest times in my life he closed all means of contact and i cant reach him at all and he keeps sayin im dying cuz of some thins and thats a suicidal thought i have tried talkin surprisin and pretty much everythign btu hes made it impossible to get in contact and it is because of his parents hes depressed
1 other friend is great but she has more than 1 best friend which i dont mind she always tells me shs here for me whenever i need her but when i do she kinda ignores me when i am happy(and i am a funny person) she talks to me and it seems she uses me to solve her own problems and uses my humor 4 herself also i dont really beleive she thinks of me as a frnd at all. shes special to me and its imposible for me to believe she's not close ive talked 2 her bout many problems but turns out shes not interested its hard to let her go

2007-03-24 14:31:19 · 19 answers · asked by Lila 1

I was talking to one of my guy friends on the phone, and he started breathing heavily like he was masturbating. Then, he said, "Just a second" and came back a few seconds later with regular breathing. Now, my friend does sometimes breathe hard, but never like THAT. And I know he doesn't have asthma. Is there a way I could figure out if he was masturbating?

2007-03-24 14:28:33 · 5 answers · asked by Bristol 2