My friend just blew me off??

Question

Okay i know she's shy but still....she talks to me on bebo a lot but when i met up with her this evening she seemed distant...a lot more than usual, so i came to the conclusion that

A she actually doesn't like me

B she thinks i still fancy her (not as much as i used to)

C she may be attracted to me (didn't seem like it!!)

oddly enough she did quietly laugh at something i said to her friend.

Answer 1

Maybe she's just shy. The whole liking you or not liking you or being shy because she knows you like her is all up in the air. You can't really do anything about that anyways. Remember that people act differently on the internet (bebo, myspace, instant messaging) than they do in real life face-to-face situations. I hope this all works out. Be patient.

Answer 2

Sometimes shyness is interpreted as stuck up or in your case distant.Since she still talks to you like she always has on bebo the shyness must have overcome her for someone else was there too besides just you and her. Shynes by the way is a personality trait dificult to overcome and sometimes it takes special therapy to do this for being shy is formed in the personality of a person when very young-the toddler years and usually is a lifelong condition But as the person get a bit older,a bit more matur it becomes easier to adjust to it and to find ways to overcome it esp in social situations.Since you knew shes shy and by the experience this evening jut how shy she is the next time you meet you should take the initiative and draw her into the conversation-for its not that she does not like you for were that true would not talk you even on bebo, probably is attracted to you but too shy yet to show-but the more you make the effort .initiative to put her at ease,draw into conversations with topics she knows a lot about no problem talking about -the more at ease she will feel with you-even when someone else is there AND the more Confident she will also feel in herself for the attraction if real and i think it is will grow until it'll just about show itself for there are strong emotions inolved in attractions. Smile a lot at her and maybe hint to her that yOU like her, that You aare attracted by giving her compliments-if she lkooks nice say so-there is nothing that beats Flattery ,Compliments to HELP a Person to Overcome Shyness-Your Efforts Just May Begin something Beautiful But suppose just a Friendship for guys can be just friends with girls that can easily talk to and you can with her(lot of time on Bebo)etc and even if more in the future your paths in life may differ think of the difference you'll make that will stay with her for her life if through your efforts,your kindness you help her in being not so shy. The main reason I believe just shy and that she likes,is attacted to you is that "she did quietly laugh at something" you said to her friend.That should even encourage you for were she not to like you or be attracted to you-that would not have occurred.I think you know just want some confirmation. Be a nice guy and...! Chow

Answer 3

Sounds like she's just shy and you really can't come up with any conclusions since this is your first meeting. Give it some time before you to try to figure it out:)