Friends - January 2007

My best friend and I are like brother and sister. For as long as I can remember we have done pretty much everything together. Until a few months ago we used to walk every afternoon, hang together most nights, watch movies, play pool and see our mates at the pub.
Now he has a girlfriend. Don't get me wrong, I love seeing him happy, and I am pretty good friends with his gf too, but it seems that now they are neglecting their other friendships. At first I thought i was just being jealous, but then I got talking with his gf's best mate and she feels the same. I never hear from him unless I call him or go see him and I really miss my best friend. When I need him most he is "too busy" to talk / listen, and I have tried explaining to him that just one day out of every week, just the two of us would be nice. All he can say is "you can come round and see US whenever you want"

Why doesn't he get that I need time with just him sometimes?

What should I do?

2007-01-10 15:39:54 · 12 answers · asked by loza500 3

Which annoys him more. Can you think of a nice non-confrontational way to tell her to shut-up already?

2007-01-10 15:36:38 · 7 answers · asked by DropTopAle 2

so my friend who was my best friend knows this guy that i like. she knows that i wanna go with him to winter ball but that i dont know how to ask him. i guess she was getting fed up with me and decided to go on this big rant about how i cant do anything for myself. is it my fault that im kinda scred to ask him? and that she has more gut than i do?

2007-01-10 15:31:14 · 5 answers · asked by Starburst 2

There are these girls/guys at our school, and they are one of those "Asian groupies" kind of groups.They are the people that TypE lYkE THiS, they always go "IM A NINJA", and they always write I LOVE PENGUINS and stuff like that. My friends and I use to be in there little group, but I didn't want to hang out with them anymore because they were mean, and they would start rumors and stuff. LOL. But I have to admit they are really pretty. ANYWAY, they are always starting rumors about my friends and I, and they are always trying to hurt my friends and I.I want to talk to them, but I don't know how to approach them. Should I be very polite and tell them to be nicer or should I go crazy and swear at them and punch them in the face. I can't stand them starting rumors about my friends and I anymore. How should I approach this problem?

2007-01-10 15:27:40 · 15 answers · asked by dk 3

i need help. my best friend is hanging out with these guys that act cool but to tell you the truth their the stupidest kids in the class. hes in their club called, DX. when ever we play like sports like we play alot of soccer so they dont even take time to pick teams they just say DX vs. everyone else. so he thinks he's all that but he used to be nicer but hes changed. they always say yo we got yor back. they always talk and then when their done with their lunch they go play soccer and then they do the same thing. oh just letting you know no one's really supervising us so they start tackling. my friend christian that the guys name, isnt really big on the other hand a big, tall guy compared to the other kids. so he doesnt even hand out with me any more he's my best friend and at soccer it's hard to go against my best frien so do you have any good advice?

2007-01-10 15:18:13 · 8 answers · asked by -=-=- 4

Why would his now ex of 5 years, shut him out after she got pregnant by him and he did nothing wrong?.....and he is an excellent father!!

2007-01-10 15:15:05 · 7 answers · asked by ? 1

2007-01-10 15:14:31 · 5 answers · asked by sissongin 1

2007-01-10 15:10:03 · 3 answers · asked by Mama girl 1

So you see, one of my teacher recently "disappeared" for being a "child molester". I heard a girl did it just to sue him. ButI also heard it was the real thing. All my friends want him back, but I'm just confused. Help?

2007-01-10 15:01:32 · 3 answers · asked by Dyana 2

oi am going out with my best friends cousin but i have a crush on her boyfriend what should i do?

2007-01-10 14:59:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had a very good friend (best friend) for over 6 years...and when we moved apart, I still saw him but rarely..and you could tell we were each doing different things. It was kinda sad but the past 2 years I haven't heard, seen, or talked to him :-(. Anyone have a similar experience?

2007-01-10 14:59:21 · 9 answers · asked by Greg S 3

Ok well my friend and I were going to lunch after school. She had her period and wasn't feeling well, so she called her mom and asked her to bring her some medicine. When she came back she said her mom said it would be easier if she just went home and she did, this was very dissappointing to me since i hadn't been alone with her in like over a year. So i thought it would be good if we reconnected, and became friends again. it made me mad she left since this hasn't been that first time a friend has cancled the day of our plans, so i was hoping it wouldn't be the way it always was. but it was. SO i sent a text saying.... R U FEELING BETTER? U SHOULDN'T I WAS ACUTALLY HOPING THIS TIME I MADE PLANS IT WOULDN'T BE LIKE THE REST OF THEM AND HOW THEY TURNED OUT.... BUT IT WAS.... and a bunch of other stuff. was that something that could have ruined what little we had left? Do i have a right to be mad? I am over reacting?

2007-01-10 14:56:25 · 10 answers · asked by SO SASSY 3

2007-01-10 14:52:55 · 15 answers · asked by ndeepuachari 2

I told Josh that i liked him and we still hang out.But, hes going out with my best friend Brittany and im kindof jelous because i asked him out first and knew him better and she came a long.A couple questions.WHAT DO I DO?AND ARE TWINS TROUBLE?

2007-01-10 14:47:28 · 2 answers · asked by Jamie Pooh :) 2

Okay, so me and my best friend are pretending to be someones friend. But when the girl turns around we talk crap about her. BUT SHE DEERVES IT!! She stole from me, and lied to my best friend.

Do you think what we are doing is wrong?

2007-01-10 14:39:14 · 19 answers · asked by Kyle 3

For the last 3 years i have had this love of boys(i am) but lately i met this girl and i have this feeling in my heart like its about to explode this feeling happens alot when i am around a certain boy and now ity is happenin wen im around this girl am i in luv

2007-01-10 14:31:37 · 10 answers · asked by puppy_luv_69_66 1

I guess i got up and was talking to her at her room standing there in my t shirt and tighty whities with her hot roomate their. I guess they were taking pics of me having me doing stupid things in my huggers on camera and the pics are already up on the web. Sucks to not know what ya doin when shattered. Anybody had a more embarrassing night?

2007-01-10 14:25:36 · 3 answers · asked by jusdoit31 1

I go to Monrovia Middle School and was just wondering if anyone honestly new her because I was her best friend and then she got in a fight with my other best friend and made up a whole bunch of lies about her and I confronted her about it and she doesn't want to be my friend anymore can anyone helpme.

2007-01-10 14:08:44 · 2 answers · asked by hannahs_superstar 2

ok i dont get it i was talking to my best friend and ive known her since i was in 3rd grade and she was tlkin to my ex and i called him an *** cause he was laughin at the fact that Chinese peple sometimes have to abandon thier children and she got mad at me and took his side and i know that she really likes him cuase first off its just obvious and second she keeps dreaming about him but even if im wrong i think she should take my side just cause shes my friend i mean it doest really matter if im right or wrong i always take her side and defend her so shouldnt she do the same or am i just paranoid???

2007-01-10 14:07:00 · 9 answers · asked by Katarina P 1

being like sisters for over 10 years. she was going to rough times and bailed her out borrowing some money. well we never said it was a loan, I mean we never discussed the terms or anything, at that time I just wanna to help her. after the loan thing she vanished. tried to call/email and she said that she was involved in this relationship and was too busy. then I asked her about my money and she said it was never a loan (??) and got even very mad at me for trying to collect the money. my heart was broken. then a friend of mine said she would tell the guy my friend was dating and tell him the kind of friend that she was. they guy dumped my friend in a sec. the obvious happened, she got REALLY BUT VERY UPSET and now the money is gone and the friendship too.......I am still heart broken and not that worried about the money anymore

2007-01-10 14:03:37 · 14 answers · asked by Annie D 1

Or is that just my friend James?

2007-01-10 14:03:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

So I have this friend right and he thinks i am such a guy. Not like tom boyish but like, I act like a guy i guess. He says i have more guy friends than girls and i have more sleep overs with guys than girls and i can hit harder or as hard as some guys hes knows and finally I am always wanting to be sexual. (like being horny i guess) All my guy friends think i am my own breed of girl but in a good way. And all my girl firends think im to close with them. And i shouldn't trust them as much as i do. Like i tell them pretty much everything but they tell eachother anyway but i just keep telling them. But yea am I that guyish

2007-01-10 14:01:28 · 4 answers · asked by DKC36 2

Well, there is this classmate of mine that acts odd around me. Like its fine when he always comes up to me and says the same thing again like "so uh What's up" But there was one time when i was sitting next to him at lunch and we and my other friends were talking about deaths and stuff(random conversation,) and then this girl next to him was saying "Oh i know who you like. I won't tell though. But i know!" She made it loud too so i could hear what she was saying. I was annoyed and didnt say anything. He never denied her comment. He just was nervous and quiet. During another day, a lot of people in my class were talking about our th grade dance. They were already asking eachother who was going with who. I was planning to just have fun with my friends, but he came up and started a conversation about it. He asked "Who was i going with" and i told him my friends and he was shocked and then left quickly. I'm just wondering, does he like me? Even if he did, he's good-looking, but not for me.

2007-01-10 14:00:08 · 19 answers · asked by pink 2

My best friend has a 6 year old son, who she thinks the sun shines out of, but he is a very naughty boy who will lie to your face to get out of things he has done wrong,do you think its wrong for me to say to her he needs pulling into line,he causes alot of tension with my 13 year old son and her 14 year old daughter who are best friends also. The mum is always sticking up for him regardless of if he is in the wrong or not and im finding myself having to restrain myself more and more because im afraid if i say something she might get offended, but its making me not want to spend time with them all.

2007-01-10 13:56:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's fun and flirty and nothings going to come of it except fun. When he found out how old I was, he stopped writing. How can anyone be so small minded as to rule out a friendship?

2007-01-10 13:26:02 · 16 answers · asked by Sharyn 5

okay, so i had my first real kiss last night with this guy. as far as mine and his relationship goes, we're going out. he's my boyfriend, i'm his girlfriend, our parents know we like each other, they just don't completely approve and we're waiting for that day to come. there is no way in hell that i'm going to tell my mom what happened cuz she'd kill me. the only ppl on this planet who know what happened are him, me, and my brother (just cuz i tell him everything). its making me crazy that its bottled up inside of me and i can't tell anyone else because then ppl i don't want to know wud find out and that wud suck. i'm kinda in this position where i just went through something amazing and now i dunno what to do with myself. i had my very first kiss!!!! this is a really big thing for me!!!! someone please tell me what to do!!!!

2007-01-10 13:22:28 · 29 answers · asked by jgmice 2

Jus a lil game we used to play as kids....the RULES are

1) Take your pets name as the FIRST NAME.

2) Then take your mothers maiden name as the SECOND NAME.


Mine is TOMMY BEGUM...lol

2007-01-10 13:20:51 · 41 answers · asked by PrinceOfDarkness 2

Well, it all started in 5th grade. I met this new kid an made friends with him. we both had a crush on this girl in 5th grade too. In 6th grade he started to kinda act like me and made friends with all my friends, then he kept being with my other best friend, tryin to always hang out together (go to his house and play video games etc.). Pretty soon i felt left out and my other best friend was a closer friend to the kid back in 5th grade. He also was acting more like me and when i told him somthin i was thinkin of gettin he'd try to get it, for instance, i was thinkin of gettin a mp3 player and i told him, little did i know that he all of a sudden got a nano a week after i told him and i thought of gettin a PSP and he said "wait hold on my mom is callin me.............K im bak, so how much is a PSP cuz my mom asked me" HIS MOM DOESNT EVEN SPEAK ENGLISH!!!! HOW WOULD SHE KNOW WAT A PSP IS AND RIGHT AFTER I ASKED! now in 7th grade, he is now doin the same with my new best friend. soo mad!

2007-01-10 13:19:18 · 8 answers · asked by Jesse S 2

i think sumers friend hates me she wont leave me alone

2007-01-10 13:16:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-10 13:08:38 · 29 answers · asked by Hanah M 1