i need help. my best friend is hanging out with these guys that act cool but to tell you the truth their the stupidest kids in the class. hes in their club called, DX. when ever we play like sports like we play alot of soccer so they dont even take time to pick teams they just say DX vs. everyone else. so he thinks he's all that but he used to be nicer but hes changed. they always say yo we got yor back. they always talk and then when their done with their lunch they go play soccer and then they do the same thing. oh just letting you know no one's really supervising us so they start tackling. my friend christian that the guys name, isnt really big on the other hand a big, tall guy compared to the other kids. so he doesnt even hand out with me any more he's my best friend and at soccer it's hard to go against my best frien so do you have any good advice?
2007-01-10 15:18:13 · 8 answers · asked by -=-=- 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
he's only hanging out with them so he can get more friends. not trying to be jealous but they aren't even close to what he likes or what hes like.
2007-01-10 15:28:29 · update #1
who is this haley person i don't even know a haley?
2007-01-10 15:39:32 · update #2
Try talking to your friend. If he's really your friend, he'll listen to you and try to be a better friend. If he doesn't, find a new best friend. You sound like a nice guy and I think you deserve better.Good luck and God Bless.
2007-01-10 15:24:10 · answer #1 · answered by mamabear 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, that happened to me with my friend. I knew her since we were about 6 she had gone to private school until about 5th grade. Then she started to not hang out with me anymore. She would hang out with the cooler kids, and she would act like them. Years later she wouldn't even talk to me in the hallways anymore. I know that it is painful knowing that person for so long and then just having the person change in a second for popularity. But the truth is it happens all the time, and although it is hard to do you must relieze that, that person changed and most likely won't be the same. The best thing you can do is try to get over it, and just hope, hope that the person does change but if they don't, don't be upset because they lost something dear to them not you.
2007-01-10 23:29:45 · answer #2 · answered by ?????????? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I went through something like that when I was in school a very long time ago.She was my best friend all through 1st.grade-8th.then two girls came along they were bad girl or should I say wild you get the picture.She started to talk to them and the more she did with them the less we hung out.She became just like them .We stopped hanging out and it was like we were never friends.She really hurt my feelings when she did that to me.i had to find new friends to hang out with just like you will sorry to say.
2007-01-10 23:42:52 · answer #3 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i had a similar problem before. ask your friend why he is hanging out with those guys? most importantly though tell him that he used to be nice before he started hanging out with DX and stuff. tell him that ever since hes started hanging out with DX hes changed a lot and doesnt hang out with you anymore.
btw-i think DX is the most retarded name for a group that i have ever heard of
2007-01-10 23:31:02 · answer #4 · answered by C♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People change, Not tryin to be mean but you sound like a fairly young kid.. you will make new friends over the course of your life.
2007-01-10 23:25:11 · answer #5 · answered by Llama 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why not just move on to different friends?
as people grow and learn they change. so we don't always have the same friends we started out with.
time to move on.
2007-01-10 23:23:01 · answer #6 · answered by angel1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to get new friends because it looks like he has moved on. good luck to u
2007-01-10 23:24:22 · answer #7 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get a new best friend
2007-01-10 23:24:52 · answer #8 · answered by Marty B 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋