Ok well my friend and I were going to lunch after school. She had her period and wasn't feeling well, so she called her mom and asked her to bring her some medicine. When she came back she said her mom said it would be easier if she just went home and she did, this was very dissappointing to me since i hadn't been alone with her in like over a year. So i thought it would be good if we reconnected, and became friends again. it made me mad she left since this hasn't been that first time a friend has cancled the day of our plans, so i was hoping it wouldn't be the way it always was. but it was. SO i sent a text saying.... R U FEELING BETTER? U SHOULDN'T I WAS ACUTALLY HOPING THIS TIME I MADE PLANS IT WOULDN'T BE LIKE THE REST OF THEM AND HOW THEY TURNED OUT.... BUT IT WAS.... and a bunch of other stuff. was that something that could have ruined what little we had left? Do i have a right to be mad? I am over reacting?
2007-01-10 14:56:25 · 10 answers · asked by SO SASSY 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
first i never get to be with my friends they always cancel and then when they come to school that talk about how much fun it was, and she didn't have to leave school someone had advil at school, and once again i always get blown off, i made the plans and i always set the whole thing up, then get dissappointed in the end because they had other plans. then don't say you can come.
2007-01-10 15:06:07 · update #1
I did feel bad she wasn't feeling good. i am not the ***** you all say i am, why are my weekends always open becuz all of my friends don't bother with me i am sick of being the phonebook and hw buddy.
2007-01-10 15:10:24 · update #2
I mean it wasn't sick sick she had a headache and a cramp, i would stick it out. i wasn't directing it all to her it was a way off expressing how i felt when other people had done it too. i can easily talk to her at school tomorrow no prob she might not even be mad but even feel bad that this is me
2007-01-10 15:19:27 · update #3
JUST SEND HER ANOTHER EMAIL AND SAY YOUR SORRY ABOUT THE FIRST 1, SINCE YOU WERE UPSET, BUT YOU HOPE SHE'S FEELING BETTER NOW.AND THAT YOU CAN STILL TRY TO GET TOGETHER SOON. THEN JUST LEAVE IT UP TO HER.
2007-01-10 15:00:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a girl, too. You should understand what it's like to be having your period.
You don't have a right to be mad, no offense. But would you want a friend mad at you 'cause you had to leave due to not feeling well?
Don't overreact, and say you're sorry for the text- that you had just looked foward to catching up.
2007-01-10 15:06:44 · answer #2 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your overreacting and being selfish. Your making this all about you, what if there were something wrong with your friend and she died that night? The last thing you sent to her was a nasty text because she disappointed you. How would that make you feel? Start treating your friends like friends instead of people there to occupy your time.
2007-01-10 15:02:12 · answer #3 · answered by jimstock60 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd have to say you are, I'm sure if she made the plans with you in the first place she wanted to go and it just didn't work out. It might have been better to tell her your upset becuase you had really wnated to hang out and then try to make it for a day when she was feeling better....
2007-01-10 15:00:58 · answer #4 · answered by twinktoes7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, your friend was sick, you have to understand. Empathize with her for a moment. Would you really want to be out when you weren't feeling well? I think that you can spare your friendship( if you want to, of course). Say something like "I'm really sorry I got upset with you, but I was feeling discouraged because we never have any one on one time anymore." If she continues to flake out on you, let her know that you don't appreciate it, and if she doesn't stop after that, cut ties with her.
2007-01-10 15:06:53 · answer #5 · answered by meghanhappy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are overeacting, don't blame her because she wasn't feeling good. If you still want to try being her friend still start by apologizing. Hope it works out.
2007-01-10 15:03:32 · answer #6 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r over reacting jus a lil bit. when u dnt feel gud u dnt feel gud. or maybe she was just trying to blow u off and lied about it. u never know. but gud luck
2007-01-10 15:01:53 · answer #7 · answered by sara ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
over reacting is and understatment! $H!T shewasnt felling good u gota give her a break well its to late now!
2007-01-10 15:06:23 · answer #8 · answered by Reaper G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's always tomorrow, and your friend will still be there.
2007-01-10 15:01:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r over-reacting.......
2007-01-10 14:59:44 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋