i realize that everyone is self-centered to a point, but i have a friend who is very much all about herself. she has pissed off all of her friends.. ALL of them, since getting a boyfriend who is a total wet blanket. she started dating him 4 months ago, and all of her friends have told her how much she has changed, but she just hears that she is pushing her friends away, but she still just goes futher into her new boyfriends shadow, and we have no hope of getting her to see reality.
her boyfriend is "different", shall we say from all of us, we do things (partying) that he doesn't see any need for, in his life, which i completely respect.
however, i am having a hard time respecting my friends choices. its like they are from two different worlds but she doesn't see how that pushes us out. is there any hope? general rules give her a couple months to get over this crap-- its been FOUR!
if the changes are permanent than i think i am going to eventually lose my "best friend".advice?
2006-11-11
03:05:21
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