no help when asked in my earlier question. so i asked again.
help me this boy is my younger brother's best friend. he is 18 and hes such a pain in the ***.. rite now he in the living room waiting for my brother to come back. i can't stay glued to the room all day but i know my bro is coming back in few HRS time.. how do i get rid of him .. i did not allow him to enter earlier but he insisted.. and heck he did a major confession about liking me and ask me for a date before and now he is bugging me the same thing no way i would date him he is like 7 years younger than me and like a little kid..im worried he mite do something. coz im alone rite now..
give me an idea how to get rid of him asap..
ok ok i'm still waiting for my fren to come but hes still not here yet.. and yes physically he is strong ...arghhhhh
2006-11-11 02:06:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
tell him too leave and if he refuses call the police and have him removed ,
2006-11-11 02:11:49 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First things first- make it clear to him that you are communicating with someone outside (cell phone or landline) and if possible let him overhear you telling this other person (may be your parents, or a friend) that you are by yourself and this boy is hanging around waiting for your brother. This will make it clear to him that someone outside knows that you are with him alone.
To get rid of him, you might invent a pretext that you have to go out to run some errands etc. If he doesn't get the hint and restarts the topic of dating you, you should politely but firmly tell him that you are not for it. The only reason you allowed him in is because he is your brother's friend and that he should know that. Most probably he is under the impression that he has been asked to come in alone and hence thinks he has a chance with you.
If he becomes obnoxious, you should politely tell him that he is no longer welcome to stay at your home. Make sure that you have your cellphone in your hand when you tell him this! Good luck.
2006-11-11 10:18:18 · answer #2 · answered by Rajagopal N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you cant date someone that is 7 years younger than you. If you still live w/ your parents tell him that theyll be home soon & wont like him there. If you dont then tell him that your "boyfriend" is coming over & doesnt like other guys at the house unless its your brother. Hopefully he will leave. If he doesnt grab the back of his shirt while opening the door & shove him out. You may be laughing right now but at least hell be gone. P.S Make sure you lock the door afterwards.
2006-11-11 14:56:42 · answer #3 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi ...how r u doing...
u might tell him that u have 2 go out for emergency( like one of your friends need your help or something) and u have 2 go out now and u can't let him here alone then he have 2 go and come back later 2 your brother.... i hope u will like it..i'm just trying 2 help...
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2006-11-11 10:16:29 · answer #4 · answered by nice engineer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did u tell im flat out how u felt when he asked u out? Hopefully, you're friend gets there soon. Tell him that your friend is on his way, you're going out, and that he'll have to leave. If that doesn't work, call for help. Good Luck.
2006-11-11 10:13:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you’re not interested and you would appreciate it if he would call before coming over to see your brother. That way if the brother isn’t there he won’t be wasting anyone’s time by coming over.
2006-11-11 10:12:16 · answer #6 · answered by Snicklefritz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow you're like 25 yrs old and hes 18!lol!well he does like you but tell him "im sorry but you are to young for me.you're 18 and im 25.theres other lady fish in the sea you know!" lol!try that!
2006-11-11 11:12:17 · answer #7 · answered by 2cute2handle♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to leave or you will call the police or if you have security in your building that you will call them.
If he doesn't leave then do it - follow through.
Tell him he is not welcome when your brother isn't home. Then tell your brother to get his friend under control.
2006-11-11 10:12:26 · answer #8 · answered by wifey42 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fake a phone call from a friend or your parents...tell this fella you have to leave for awhile and that he can call your brother later.
2006-11-11 10:14:12 · answer #9 · answered by hummingbird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what he does if you don't like it to happen nothing will happen, unless he rapes you, which is unlikely. So just ignore him.
2006-11-11 10:13:12 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋