Friends - October 2006

I think I need some help. A friend of mine who I used to hang out with all the time just decided to start dating his ex-girlfriend again. I am so freaking jealous by this and so hurt that I can't stand it. He was my best friend and I love him VERY much. (We were friends w/benefits). I can't stand the thought of him with someone new, much less her. I hate her because she had an abortion and he didn't want her to have the abortion. Anyway, I have been making harassing phone calls, emails, letters and text messages. I've even threatened his family and his friends, anonymously. I know what I am doing is wrong. I want to call the police and turn myself in. I know that they have the police working on the case, so it is only a matter of time until they figure me out. I am thinking that if I turn myself in, then maybe they will go easy on me. I think I need some psychological help. I also don't want to lose my best friend (that guy with his ex-girl) - he still wants to be friends.

2006-10-28 05:44:39 · 7 answers · asked by dobies_mum 1

2006-10-28 05:44:09 · 5 answers · asked by sarah7 1

like this boy NIck and we tend to flirt alot.... and last week he called me and we both talked,, i asked him him if he likes me and he said well i never really thought about it but Yes i do like u... and then i said i was cold and he said aww my poor baby do u want a bear hug.... then i called him on sat.. and told him i was at a baseball game and he said ,, your just saying that just b/c u want me to go.. and i was like if u want to u can.. so he walked after his football game to go see me at the baseball game.. we talked and stuff.... But he hasnt called me in a week and this week it seems like he's been talking to me less sorta also he ignores me..... he saw me talking to this boy and he looked at the boy with the most angriest face ever..,, like if he was going to beat him up.. and today i told him why is he acting diff and he said he wasnt.... and then he asked me if i was going to go to his football game... why do u think he's been ignoring me?? especially since a week...... .. well now i figured he lied to me and i guess he was just trying to play with my feelings... b/c my friend told him jen needs to talk to u ....(jen=me) and supposely he said .. ugh and rolled his eyes at my friend...... and 2 days after he gave an angry stare at my friend b/c he made me laugh.... but wouldnt that mean hes jealous?? so iam not sure whats going on.. iam confused.. and today i actually started a conversation, we flirted,and I said did u miss talking to me and he said Maybe ,so i was like u know maybe means 90% for me and he said... yeah i do... but then he said i was too controlling...... today my male friend who is also a football player asked Nick what he thought about me and he said i was nice... and my friend told my crush that i and nick make a nice couple... and that we should go out,,, and my crush supposely said nah,, and that he has 2 gf's one in north carolina and one in seymore... and supposely hes going to move back to northcarolina........... thats what my friend said........ and iam so pissed b/c i feel like it was wrong for Nick to put my hopes up by saying that he wanted to make out with me and stuff... HES SUCH A PLAYER!!! i really wish i could hurt him some way.............. like he did to me..... :(

2006-10-28 05:43:03 · 3 answers · asked by Jen 1

She is always mean to my sister and then gets mad at her and then they fight and the next thing you know thier friends. She gets mad at me when she is mad at my sister and shes not my friend for about a week its just not fair. Were mad at each other right now because of her and my sistergot into a fight and started telling the teacher on each other so the other one got really mad at her and pushed the other and so she got in trouble and now my friend is mad at me. She keeps me from doing my regular activies because she does everything i do. Will someone please help me work it out with me and my friend.

2006-10-28 05:36:34 · 10 answers · asked by bbsis95 1

I have nothing against people,I usually talk with people who are older than me and have some experience in life,people from which I can learn something.
I can't say I haven't got any friends but I feel better when I'm alone,
but during all these years (I'm 16) my teachers were concerned about me,they thought something was wrong with me just because I was always 'outside' the group.
I think that's wrong!
There are lots of people who are sociable and they are the scum of the earth.
Tell me,am I wrong?
Thank you!

2006-10-28 05:34:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-28 05:30:58 · 4 answers · asked by eyoal 1

At school I have friends, but i feel that I don't have enough. The school I go to is really diverse and there are some many different groups of people. I see so many people with their big groups of frineds, but i doon't have that. I feel alone sometimes.

I'm really shy, so making friends doesn''t come 100% easy for me. How could I make friends and meet new people if my personality is really shy? How could I fit into this big wide world of high school? How do I make opening up come easier to me?

2006-10-28 05:30:10 · 3 answers · asked by Britt 2

2006-10-28 05:18:17 · 3 answers · asked by pramod_bhikhampur p 2

I've known her since highschool. When I started dating the man who is now my husband, I always made sure I still spent plenty of time with her and my other friends. She even told me that we were the only couple that she actually liked hanging out with. Even when I had a job and was in college, we still talked everyday and hung out. Even when I got married, had a baby, and started my own business, I still made plenty of time for her. Several months ago, she started dating a guy who my husband is friends with. They got serious fast, and moved in together almost right away. And all of a sudden, it was like I dont exist anymore. Like she was just using me to bide her time until she would have a man. I tried still calling her and going out of my way for her, but when she didnt reciprocate, I gave up. Her excuse is that work keeps her too busy. Well, I dont consider 30hrs a week of work to be all that demanding. She stopped by while I was gone yesterday. Said we should come see

2006-10-28 05:17:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

my friend and her boyfriend have just split up and she's really cut up about it any ideas on what to do to cheer her up?iv tried a few things but need some help now!

2006-10-28 05:05:18 · 14 answers · asked by steff w 1

2006-10-28 05:04:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well, all I can say is that, we're kinda close, I tell him most of the stuff which I can't even reveal to others - including current boyfriend, as things are not going so well for us in terms of future. This friend of mine makes me laugh which I personally value in a guy and he's a sweet romantic kinda type. If you know me personally, your point of view towards me would be that I'm independent with a tendancy to be more interested in cars & success. THOUGH, I really would like it if a guy for ONCE to treat me as girlfriend rather than a friend who is a girl. I dream of a day where a guy would send me flowers for no reason, plan a getaway for just the both of us rather than the whole "posé", meeting me at the airport after one of my trips, secure and care for me. What should I do? This friend of mine fits the category, but I don't wanna ruin é friendship. I'm not pretty and I'm not even in the category of the "type" of girl he fancy. FYI I'm Asian, and we're both horse year. Pls help>

2006-10-28 04:57:05 · 2 answers · asked by phenophiles 1

im very shy and when i make friends, i say the wrong types of things some times.
i need conversation starters and tips on how to approah a stranger and instantly make them like me.
im quiet and i would love to be popular - im a middle child so i am socially challenged. my bro and sis make friends so easily but i spend all my time at home - doing nothing.
HELP

2006-10-28 04:46:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

hes 38.....lives with paents...always has cept for couple times but mostly dont work...wont work when given the chance....bums around on friends and thinks that when his parents die he will get enough money to buy trailer and live on but his parents aint got no money....he real loser or what?

2006-10-28 04:20:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need somebody to talk to because my life is crushing.Plz i am a girl and i need a friend to talk to about my life with my boyfriend and my family and if u have prblems too. PLZZZZZZZZ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-28 04:17:32 · 17 answers · asked by CUTEY 1

How would you define "friend"? In my experience, a friend is one who initiates conversation with you and expresses interest in you, someone who thinks positively of you (and lets you know) even when you're not together. Given that working definition, I don't think I have a lot of friends - if any. It always seems like I'm reaching out to others, initiating conversation, showing interest in them and their lives....but no one is doing so for me. How about you? How would you define "friend" and, based on that definition, how many do you have?

2006-10-28 04:09:07 · 14 answers · asked by Eastern US Guy 2

my friend's friend got a proposal on Valntines Day she refused. so that person started making fun of my friend! what does he wanaa prove? and on the other hand, my friend likes that boy!, what should she do?

2006-10-28 04:03:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2006-10-28 03:50:35 · 10 answers · asked by jayesh_1232007 1

im emo and so many people r mean about it i dont want to b like every1 else i already spent more than half of life trying

if u have anything to say about it than u cn e-mail me @
dancing_leemur25@yahoo.com

2006-10-28 03:34:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

from the hospital in floods of tears and told me her dad is dying and it will be in the next few hours . I am not very good with dealing with emotional people , i am a good listener but i don`t know what i can say to make a positive impact . Please help . Everytime the phone goes my stomach churns .... Shes my best friend but i feel so useless .. I cant go to the hospital , i have 4 kids and there are other members of the family with her ....

2006-10-28 02:58:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just wondering...Peace have a good day every1 Love!!!!

2006-10-28 02:50:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am very particular about manners, etiquette,cleanliness etc. I make frens based on thse things n their background and career. I am kinda introvert. With my frens, I go on and on and talk endlessly...and with others, I don utter a word..always on either of the extremes..I am tooooo frank and honest..with my opinions regd. anything...My frens say, i should change myself, since people generally form a wrong opinion on me that...I am snobbish ...and this is the reason, people find snobbish with loads of attitude and very unapproachable, which I am not...They say that I shouldn't be sooo choosy in making frens and while meeting new people. Though i tried my best to change myself, I couldn't. Am i wrong? If yes, How can I change myself? Plsss advise..

2006-10-28 02:50:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anu 1

I am very particular about manners, etiquette,cleanliness etc. I make frens based on thse things n their background and career. I am kinda introvert. With my frens, I go on and on and talk endlessly...and with others, I don utter a word..always on either of the extremes..I am tooooo frank and honest..with my opinions regd. anything...My frens say, i should change myself, since people generally form a wrong opinion on me that...I am snobbish ...and this is the reason, people find snobbish with loads of attitude and very unapproachable, which I am not...They say that I shouldn't be sooo choosy in making frens and while meeting new people. Though i tried my best to change myself, I couldn't. Am i wrong? If yes, How can I change myself? Plsss advise..

2006-10-28 02:46:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anu 1

to have a crush on a guy. but he likes your best friend.
yes, this is another crush question [but this time its a different guy ;]]
so, my new crush has had a long time crush on my best friend. hes asked her out 3 times and shes said no. one of the reasons was because being a total pimp. this is when i totally thought so too. but recently, ive developed a crush. hes super sweet & can keep up a conversation. she says she doesnt like him, but flirts with him constantly, although she flirts with everyone ;] shes gorgeous & every guy is in love with her. how do i cope? i obviously dont get over guys too easily [just read my other questions]. thanks guys!

2006-10-28 02:45:08 · 5 answers · asked by aimee! ♥ 1

My B.f is precious, treats me good and everything but my friends dont like him beacuse he is "ugly". They know how i wanted my deram boyfriend to look and they just base things on that. I say no no no. Life is not a dream i am living reality. But sometimes i think about what they said and i get kinda imbarresed that i am like a model but he isnt but i come back to my right state in mind...I am so confused, what do i do?

2006-10-28 02:43:23 · 12 answers · asked by Princess 1

I like to know how can have a good relationship with people and donot have a trouble in this case. Please help me.

2006-10-28 02:35:42 · 6 answers · asked by vahid 1

How to say Happy birthday to friends on myspace? Are graphics available?

2006-10-28 02:09:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-28 02:05:57 · 22 answers · asked by bhuhir 1

should I have lowered expectations of friends in order to stop being frustrated with some of their ways?

2006-10-28 02:05:54 · 15 answers · asked by Angry Insightful Black 3

Do you hate it?Or do you like it?

2006-10-28 02:01:58 · 22 answers · asked by sosy j 1