I am very particular about manners, etiquette,cleanliness etc. I make frens based on thse things n their background and career. I am kinda introvert. With my frens, I go on and on and talk endlessly...and with others, I don utter a word..always on either of the extremes..I am tooooo frank and honest..with my opinions regd. anything...My frens say, i should change myself, since people generally form a wrong opinion on me that...I am snobbish ...and this is the reason, people find snobbish with loads of attitude and very unapproachable, which I am not...They say that I shouldn't be sooo choosy in making frens and while meeting new people. Though i tried my best to change myself, I couldn't. Am i wrong? If yes, How can I change myself? Plsss advise..
2006-10-28 02:50:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Dont sweat it, just be yourself. For every person that doesnt like you, 10 more do.
People that tell you to change yourself are controlling and not friends. Friends love you for yourself. flaws and all. Trust me.
Take care-
Cat
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2006-10-28 03:09:41 · answer #1 · answered by CatLambe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, The present day mangers are lagging Interpersonal skills its a thing we have to learn from the people who have these skills. To improve them
Read Books related it.
Under go training programs provied by experts in that field.
Try to maintin good relation with all.
Come out of ego which is the main cause and every one had it.
Many managment schools are teaching this skills.
Learn the technique of self learning.
Mediataion.
Self anylisation. etc.
2006-10-28 03:03:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a nice person there is no doubt about it. Keep the life mantra - love all. It will certainly work, but in long run.
2006-10-28 03:18:50 · answer #3 · answered by ars32 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start a blog on www.myspace.com and try to make friends with people of different ages, sex and nationalities to improve your inter personal skills
2006-10-28 03:23:48 · answer #4 · answered by sheetal501 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may find the answer in this book.
How to make friends and influence people.
There are similar books, you can ask your librarian.
2006-10-28 02:52:36 · answer #5 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be super one,then know yourself at
www.godish.homestead.com.
you will get changes in your life.you will be perfect.
2006-10-28 02:55:41 · answer #6 · answered by ibkhandel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be urself & don't u worry........
by others talks............
and that will do it.........
2006-10-28 02:58:36 · answer #7 · answered by sumu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋