She is always mean to my sister and then gets mad at her and then they fight and the next thing you know thier friends. She gets mad at me when she is mad at my sister and shes not my friend for about a week its just not fair. Were mad at each other right now because of her and my sistergot into a fight and started telling the teacher on each other so the other one got really mad at her and pushed the other and so she got in trouble and now my friend is mad at me. She keeps me from doing my regular activies because she does everything i do. Will someone please help me work it out with me and my friend.
2006-10-28 05:36:34 · 10 answers · asked by bbsis95 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She not much of a Friend is she?????? Yes you may have regular activities that you do together but are you willing to put up with her crap ???? If you really want to work it out the apparently you are the one who has to accept her the way that she is because she is not going to change.
2006-10-28 05:50:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to be friends with someone that is rude and mean... let her and your sister be friends... it sound like your sister and your friend have alot in common... there lots of people out there that are "normal"... maybe your friend seeing you move on will help her lighten up a little... when she asks you whats up... tell her you care about her... but you can't handle the stress of all the fighting and negativity that surrounds her... you need peace in your life and she seems to draw in a lot of hostility... lifes to short to dwell in a hateful personality and tell her she can change... and there is probably a deeper reason why shes that way... something that stems from how she has been treated in the past... hope this helps
2006-10-28 05:54:01 · answer #2 · answered by Sandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly honey you need to confront your friend and lay down the law. Tell her that you need a life and that in order for her to be your friend that she needs to get over these childish antics and grow up. If not you have to make a hard decision and move on. I had a best friend for many years that I was very close to but it kept me from doing other things with other people. Go and do the things that you wanna do independent of her...you do not need to cater to her in any way...be who you are darlin!
2006-10-28 05:45:15 · answer #3 · answered by tigerlily_catmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you call someone who is rude and mean to you a friend? Here is a way to "work it out" with your friend: Tell her to have a nice life and don't ever call her or receive calls from her. Then you can find new friends who will truly care about you and believe in the golden rule.
2006-10-29 05:51:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cassie, it doesn't sound like she's YOUR friend, it sounds like you are HER friend. You need to evaluate the value of this friendship, is it a relationship that fills you up, makes you feel good. Do you like the character of this person, does she make you feel "good" for having been with her? The time you have in life should be cherished and the friendships you CHOOSE should be people who fill you up emotionally and spiritually, (in your soul).Remember, if you have one TRUE and Faithful friend in life you are truly blessed. You'll hear about "toxic" relationships, it is a relationship that is not healthy for you, negative, unfulfilling, takes from you but does not give back. It's your life, you choose what kind of people you surround yourself with, they do not choose you.
2006-10-28 05:58:27 · answer #5 · answered by zekemarie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off that is your sister and you need to stick-up for her. I wouldn't hang oout with a friend that is always mean and rude they usually don't have to many people that like them. do you want to be that way. I no I wouldn't. Sounds like bad relationship. I don't think that her freindship would be worth even keeping. But, If you are close to her you really need to talk to her about this. She needs to realize what she is doing to you .....Good Luck.
2006-10-28 05:47:21 · answer #6 · answered by smiley_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 12:10:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to con front her about her feelings and how u don't like her getting mad at u for something ur sister did?
2006-10-28 07:03:15 · answer #8 · answered by Ali b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry not to be a smart a** but sounds like you need new friends.
2006-10-28 05:43:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell this friend to take a hike and find some new friends. it appears to me that she is emotionally unstable
2006-10-28 05:48:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋