I'll try to keep this short...I have been friends with this person since I worked for her several years ago when I was a student. She's only a few years older than me. I have since returned to this company and we have resumed the friendship.
The problem is, the "friendship" is extremely one-sided. I'm expected to listen to long speeches about her diets, class papers, and her husband's sleeping habits, etc. That wouldn't be a problem, except she barely acknowledges anything going on in my life...especially things that are fairly major like breakups and serious illnesses in my family!
We go out to lunch, and she always pays (although I make more). Also, she's somewhat overweight and married; while I'm single and told on a regular basis that I'm the most attractive woman in the company, however I don't flaunt it or go around flirting with a lot of guys.
Any advice on how to get her to be a friend to ME?
2006-09-18
09:51:26
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