I don't know what it is? But I just love her. She's my internet friend. She's not talking to me these days but it doesn't matter. I've never loved anyone in my real life. I just hate people. I know why she's not talking to me. And I hate myself for what I am.
Ok. Just tell me it's ok or not?
2006-09-18 08:53:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
loving someone isn't the problem.. it's not the part tha'ts right or wrong (although u should really assess whether or not she Deserves your love or not): the problem here is that u don't love yourself. that's not ok.
u have to work on ur own life before u start trying to bring someone else into it. learn how to seek and grow into someone Positive, Healthy, Confident, and Happy... and that will make u a Wonderful Man for someone, as well as allow you to search and find a Wonderful Woman! but u can't find that until u become someone who is worthy. so, if u hate urself, change something. work on ur appearance; work out, get a new haircut, clothes, take care of ur skin.. work on how you FEEL about yourself. that will kick start ur confidence. next, work on your Mind... study harder, read more books, discuss more, THINK more! open your mind, be less judgemental, stop being negative, and keep your mind open to new things, new opportunities. start up a new hobby, excel in new activities. after that, u can start working on your Relationships: with family, friends and ultimately strangers (including this internet friend). the thing is , has she truly proven to u time and again that she is Trustworthy, Great, a wonderful woman? or are u taking her word for it w/ no actions?? =T does she really deserve your love? or are you giving it away w/ absolutely no positive outcome!
u need to make a change in ur life for the better. stop hating urself!! :) don't worry, u can ALWAYS improve. u can always learn more, think more, do more, and try and fail and try again until u succeed. don't give up until u've exhausted ALL of your means... THEN go online and find a woman. but until then, start working on urself!! :) good luck, and make sure u are great person, and u don't hate urself. don't latch on to the negative, search for teh positive. if this woman makes u feel bad, let her go, and find someone who makes you want to BE better!
2006-09-18 08:59:57 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not ok...get out of the house go be social away from the internet...go to parties, hang out with friends, ask women out on dates, etc. get to know someone that isnt an internet friend, it feels so much better when you fall in love with someone you know in person.
2006-09-18 15:57:06 · answer #2 · answered by Mark D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Study KAbbalah!
2006-09-18 16:00:26 · answer #3 · answered by Tellie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its very simple. You're a stalker. Or maybe you're on drugs.
2006-09-18 15:56:05 · answer #4 · answered by steve w 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes ! go ahead man if thats what you feel ! good luck !
2006-09-18 15:57:35 · answer #5 · answered by Pavel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's ok, calm down and take your medication.
2006-09-18 15:56:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋