I have to incredible best friends. But one of them does something almost every night that hurts my feelings. All three of us usually talk to each other on instant messanger, but eventually she seems to say 'im going to bed, i'll ttyl'. But the thing is, she doesnt. She stays on for sometimes 20-30 minutes, once even an hour. I figured she was just leaving her computer on while she got ready for bed, but I found out later she still talks to everybody else. So i thought maybe she was planning on going to bed but somebody brought something up, so then i try to start talking to her again. But then she says something short, and usually includes 'bye' or 'goodnight' or 'ttyl' in it. Example: hey do you want to do anything tomorrow? idk bye. So its like she specifically doesnt want me to talk to her. I know its strange, but it hurts my feelings. I know she isnt a fake friend, she is one of the best friends ive ever had, but it does hurt that this happens so much. What should I do?
2006-09-18
13:34:03
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