my best friend lisa is now bff with other friends erika and andrea. im still her bff but she hangs out with e. and a. a lot in school. i want to be bff with e. and a. too but they sort of don't accept me in their group. they both think i'm cool and i know because lisa asked them for me. also, lisa and andrea are always hugging and squealing when they get picked on the same team for gym, etc. when we were playing "knockout" in bball lisa was sitting on the side (twisted ankle) and andrea was shooting she's like go andrea! but when i was shooting she didn't say anything. is lisa's friendship with me slowing down? also, how can i become part of l.e.a.'s 'posse'?
2006-09-18 13:40:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
um hello if they don't want to accept you in their group you don't need them tell your friend Lisa its cool that she has new friends but you don't want to be left out you want to be their friends too but they don't want to she will understand trust me i have experience you will do perfectly fine if she just blows you off that their is not at all a real freind
2006-09-18 13:47:01 · answer #1 · answered by mm85899 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm Maybe they don't like you or get annoyed of you easily. For whatever reason. It seems like you might be a little jealous but I understand if you've been friends with lisa for so long ur used to her being your friend. I wouldn't kiss there *** thats simply not worth it. try talking to them and getting into what there into. With all respect don't lower ur standards just to be part of a crowd. If that doesn't work I would find new friends. I think thats what they want to get you jealous and mad. To make you feel excluded. Those are the types of kids that I wouldn't want to hang out with personally. Heck no I'd hang out with other people. Lisa obviously knows how cool you are and she knows what she would be missing out on. Don't worry about them. hope this helps if not good luck.
2006-09-18 20:47:32 · answer #2 · answered by nympho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently they don't think you are best friend material, sad as that may be. Continue being friends with Lisa but try to get other friends that you can enjoy instead of wishing you were part of another group.
2006-09-18 20:43:24 · answer #3 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go get yourself some more friends since being best friends isn't good enough for you.You sound very vain \ spoiled right now.Why does it matter what kind of friend she is to you,she's your friend,Or do you just feel left out?
2006-09-18 20:51:54 · answer #4 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i have the exact same problem.dont break up their freindship but i have an idea if you do something really kind myabe she will do something in return. just a suggestion.
2006-09-18 20:44:26 · answer #5 · answered by Logan J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wquld let them go and i am sure you have other friendss...i would not let them know that it bothers you at all....you might want to even ignore them some and see how they like it....
2006-09-18 20:44:05 · answer #6 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make them jealous!
maybe they're just tryna make u jealous!
2006-09-18 20:49:42 · answer #7 · answered by HappyState™ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋