Friends - September 2006

What's the best way to get a sweetheart (boyfriend/girlfriend)? I am 28 years old and I still do not have a girlfriend at all. I am starting to worry that I may never have a wife. What is the best "good" way to get a girlfriend??? I did not talk to anyone new when I was younger. Please help. What would you do if you were me??

2006-09-19 06:00:12 · 22 answers · asked by Surfer Dude 1

2006-09-19 05:51:04 · 11 answers · asked by smsma s 1

I was friends with a co-worker until recently, when I ended the friendship, because she was discussing me with the HR Director. I don't know the tone of the conversations, but after having these discussions burn me on several occasions, I went directly to her to see what was going on. She explained that they were just talking and she was misunderstood. I'm not angry, but I also don't feel comfortable speaking to her, because I don't know what she's going to repeat. I'm not talking **** or anything, but she's taking my words and spinning them to the negative when she repeats them and I have no idea why.

Now she's angry with me? What's that about? Am I being too logical? If you're twisting my words to the HR Director and getting me in hot water, I'm going to avoid conversations that aren't work related with you to stay out of hot water. Makes sense to me.

2006-09-19 05:49:44 · 10 answers · asked by LifesAMystery 3

I'm just gonna elaborate on my other post about telling my friend that I have strong feelings for him. I have been out with him in a group and it was nice, but he's not that out-going. He's mentioned going to the cinema (before I left the place we work at & where I met him) but when my friend asked him to come out with us (about 3 times) he declined. I think he might have been just be being polite as I was leaving. He talks about getting a girlfriend and has been on a date or two since he split up with his ex. I also think I'm not attractive - so it's not like I'm this hot babe who's not to be missed. Shall I tell him??

2006-09-19 05:48:05 · 7 answers · asked by Gremlin 1

The card is blank :-(

2006-09-19 05:40:42 · 5 answers · asked by question 2

I threw a BBQ for my b-day a couple weeks ago so I asked a good friend to help setup for it because my wife had a couple of commitments. The day came and my friend didn't show up when I asked. Two and a half hours later, I called her cellphone and left a voicemail saying I still needed her help. A little while later, I got a TEXT MESSAGE from her saying she was sorry, had to help her sister with something and that she just found her phone. I texted her back asking if she could still come but didn't hear back. She didn't even show up to the BBQ...it was for my b-day too!! Since then, I haven't heard from her at all. She even blocked me from IM buddy list. I e-mailed her twice saying first "Explain yourself" and then "Why are you avoiding me?" But no replies. I see her sign-on briefly almost everyday, then she signs off. Should I break the ice or wait for her to? I think she's being such a coward and can't believe she hasn't said anything yet.

2006-09-19 05:35:40 · 11 answers · asked by Nickname 2

Question about closeness and moving from friendship to more!!!!??????
I have this best friend, I'm a guy, she's a girl, we are 15 and have known each other for 2 years. When we hang out in a group, we are always standing close to each other. We playfully fight with and mock each other all the time. She calls me Reilly, even tho everyone else calls me by my first name and if they call me Reilly she gets anoyed. We are very comfortable with each other. On a couch we sorta lean into each other, anyway, I am pretty sure now that she likes me, an I know I like her, A Lot, so what should I do next? Should I test the waters by hugging her? An arm round the shoulder or waist? Any advice?

Specifically I want to know what I should do next and how.

Also, sholud I make it apparant to her that I am trying to change our relationship? Like, blatantly put my arm round her waist? Or should I be more subtle?

2006-09-19 05:16:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have known this person for about a year and have very strong feelings for him. We were close for a while (as friends) and now he's 'on-off' with me. He used to confide in me about his girlfriend but now that they've broken up he doesn't confide in me that much. There are little signs that make me think he might like me in that way, but then sometimes he is quite cold. He has had opportunities to tell me how he feels but hasn't said anything, but he has said to me that he could never ask someone out as he's too shy in that way. He can sometimes act cold, and then friendly.

I have really strong feelings for him and feel that I need to get this off my chest. This will obviously ruin our friendship if I tell him(whatever friendship there is) but at least I will be able to move on. I was told that I should maybe keep quiet and hope that someday our friendship will blossom into a proper relationship, but I don't see him enough for that to happen. What shall I do?

2006-09-19 05:12:47 · 30 answers · asked by Gremlin 1

2006-09-19 05:10:06 · 3 answers · asked by Taunya G 1

2006-09-19 04:54:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

any storys outhere??

2006-09-19 04:51:38 · 10 answers · asked by *********** 4

Before you ask, he is a legit friend!! We are very close friends and we were talking over msn messanger because its cheaper!

and this is what he said:

got to go now
love you
if i could
i would.....
but i cant
because
doesnt matter
bye

And thats how he said it - im confused, he normally just says "im off, laters" lol.

I posted this question before but so many people asked me more questions so here are the answers:
He's not gay,
He's really shy when it coms to girls he fancies
He's a virgin and doesnt want to lose his virginity before marriage because its against his religion - so its not for sex
He talks about other "fit" girls too from time to time

He doesnt seem like the type to say something like that to anyone at all, and note how he just rambled on! I thought this was a platonic friendship because he's so open with me, even about embarassing stuff - So whats going on?

2006-09-19 04:47:19 · 4 answers · asked by Miss Terious 3

2006-09-19 04:46:37 · 23 answers · asked by Markin Gomez 3

Yesterday my friend managed to walk down a escalotor on the tube and rip his trouser up the middle , how he did it we have no idea but we also found out that he had no underwear on and had to get home like it, so whats the embarrassing thing that has happened to you in public?

2006-09-19 04:44:26 · 9 answers · asked by GaryUKB 3

how can i know its ok 4 her?

2006-09-19 04:37:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-19 04:30:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

One night, one of my girl friends texted & invited him to a house party, apparently I was there, so he went. There wasn't a house party, they were just drinking so my bf decided to go home. One of my friends whose gay, stopped him from leaving, so he stayed for a while.

The drinking spree was almost over when he decided to leave. It was just him & my gay friend who was left in the living room. That's the time my gay friend started taking advantage of him. But my bf pushed him away & left.

A few days after, rumors are spreading that my bf is gay. I told my bf about it so he told me what really happened that night. I confronted my gay friend & told him to clean-up the mess he did. He said he won't, he said fancies my bf so much & I can't do anything about it. I was raging!

I know he was furious that my bf didn't give in to his advances, but ruining my bf's reputation to retaliate? That's not fair! I am thinking of asking for solicitor's/lawyer's advice on this.Any suggestions?

2006-09-19 04:29:53 · 7 answers · asked by happyheart 1

2006-09-19 04:22:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

he is sweet,cute,caring,best frnd,gves me missed calls,misses me,i too miss him,sends me msgs everyday,talks to me nicely,i like him as a frnd only.so what nickname to give him.pls help

2006-09-19 04:20:04 · 12 answers · asked by abeeksha0307 2

2006-09-19 04:19:24 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

my best male friend told me after 2 years of being mates (& I used to live with him and his horrible ex!) that he had v strong feelings for me and altho I was initially gutted I may lose him as a mate I decided to try it out... admittedly drunkenly at first... but now have fallen head over heels and was wondering if anyone else had been through similar and if so what it is like now!!

2006-09-19 04:16:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

every weekend

2006-09-19 04:14:27 · 11 answers · asked by snookie jr 1

and strt a good friendship with him. like any suggestions of ice breakers?
we r all in teh same class. both of them r smart. and taht guy is nice to everyone

2006-09-19 04:00:39 · 5 answers · asked by ღ 4

When I was a small kid I used to think that people start to move and take actions when am the same place of them, but when I leave it they stop. Name one of your weird thoughts you had when you were a kid?

2006-09-19 03:55:19 · 12 answers · asked by haya D 1

On the french website www.peripherique.org there is a presentation and a photo of a guy named Roger " Franck" PUDA ...

with the photo as a clue do you know the man I seek for him since 10 years thanks by advance

2006-09-19 03:51:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

she seperated from me this year to another class and she seldom sees me. I am heart-broken...

2006-09-19 03:47:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-19 03:27:19 · 6 answers · asked by *itz me!* 2

I can"t live without her.Though she treats me as a good friend but i just what she to be totally mine. We spend most of the time together but she talks about her best friend and she also cannot live without her. Please help me to overcome this problem as i am not able to concentrate on my studies.

2006-09-19 03:25:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm almost 19 but everyone says that I look just 15/16 years old. And the question is: is it okay?

2006-09-19 03:22:20 · 14 answers · asked by ? 6

did your parents think hard before they gave you your name? what does your name mean?

2006-09-19 03:21:34 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous