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2006-09-19 04:14:27 · 11 answers · asked by snookie jr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You walk away and give them some room. You are who you are dont change for someone else. If they are your friends they will come around in due time.
2006-09-19 04:18:03 · answer #1 · answered by Kelly V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Introspection. If LOTS of people turn against you at once, for no apparent reason, rest assured that there IS a reason. Maybe it's something that you said, or did; maybe there is unnecessary and slanderous gossip flying around. If you are sure that you did nothing to offend anyone, then the best thing to do is ask these people why they suddenly turned against you. Those who are truly your friends will tell you the reasons why they're angry. From there, you can decide how to deal with the situation. Get your side of the story out, for instance, if there is a story in the first place. Chances are, you said or did something that might have been innocent, but misinterpreted. OR, one person in that group is spreading lies about you. At any rate, look at your own actions, your own feelings in regard to the matter, and then decide whether or not the friendships that are lost were even worth it in the first place. If they are/were, then do what you can to salvage the situation, if not...make new friends--the world is full of potential new friends.
2006-09-19 11:25:48 · answer #2 · answered by chipchinka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If people are turning against you all at once, there's a reason.
Start by finding out what it is. That will give you a better idea of how to deal with it.
2006-09-19 11:16:47 · answer #3 · answered by Avid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree with the first 2 answers...there's a reason. People don't just turn on you without a good reason. What you need to do is take responsibility for your part of this action, suck it up, decided how to move on with your life.
2006-09-19 11:19:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i highly doubt they are turning against you for no reason. If you don't think they have anything to turn against you for then maybe they are just jealous of you. If they are your true friends they won't turn against you and if they aren't your true friends then they don't really matter in the first place.
2006-09-19 11:20:13 · answer #5 · answered by kmichelle89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask your self have you ever turned against some one for no reason at all? if the answer is no. then your answer is to find out what is happening for them to do this.
2006-09-19 11:50:18 · answer #6 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For no reason? Highly unlikely. What's the rest of the story?
2006-09-19 11:16:11 · answer #7 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold your head up, and look at those people who are acting like grade school kids. In my opinion, those people arent worth the time or day. I wouldnt give them another opportunity to do it to you again.
2006-09-19 11:18:20 · answer #8 · answered by notalucky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
neglect them, if they are really gainst you with out any reason.
But if they are against you with reasons, be a good listener, and hear their point of view, may be they are right.
2006-09-19 11:18:26 · answer #9 · answered by Totti Frotti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say f#$%em and stay the hell away from them all together.
2006-09-19 11:17:53 · answer #10 · answered by liliw24 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋