Friends - September 2006

My friend and I are always fighting over every guy we meet. She'll always say things like "Oh, I'm prettier, I'm funnier, he's soo mine!" Then she'll ask me who's going to get him. If I don't say her then she doesn't talk to me. She'll just ignore me and make up when she needs math answers. So I have been talking to this guy online and he and her just met online. He talks to her and she really likes him. I know that if I bring him up like always then she'll pull the same stuff she always does. She'll get him to turn against me if I'm not careful and I don't want that to happen. We're really good friends (me and the guy) but she'll ruin that. She won't even let me talk to her cousin for fear that we might end up going out. She's doing the same thing that she is with the guy online that she is with a guy in our school too. What should I do? I don't want to talk to this guy if he's going to talk about her because I'm not really the happiest person anyway. Please help me with my friend!!!

2006-09-19 10:11:37 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

our school is having a school dance on Halloween.
I really like this guy and I dont know how to ask him out.
Hes cute sensative.
Hes a coolio.
lol.
How can I ask a guy out.
( im nervous infront of some people )

2006-09-19 10:08:35 · 15 answers · asked by holla! 2

2006-09-19 10:00:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

like 3 days ago this guy asked me out... he is one of my friends and thats all i see him as.so i said no...now he is all weird around me he doesnt say anything when he sees me and today when i walked into school he stopped mid-sentsnce when he saw me(i know he wasnt talking about me) and just stared at me...what should i feel real akward when every i am around him now! i just want things to go back to the way they were before he asked me out

2006-09-19 09:59:31 · 9 answers · asked by Ashley010 5

I am in dubai since 4 -5yrs. I dont have a single friend whom I can confide in. I am v down-to-earth person & friendly. I also have helped few people in trouble.How to make friends? is there any website n wud it be feasible to make friends online n meet them??
People in dubai are selfish. I have got bad experiences from a couple of people. When they need me they will even ask me to make food for them & also wud like to stay at my place. But when i ask them for a company to go out for disco/dance, only for a couple of hours, they dont.They make excuses.For few such reasons I have lost trust on people here.Wht do I do ,,,i really need a good/decent friend / friends.

2006-09-19 09:57:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

You have to be sincere with me,12 years old girl or boy that like: That's so Raven,Hannah Montana,Phill of the future and disney channel shows all....It has to be a cool person bye..

2006-09-19 09:56:25 · 6 answers · asked by Jenny 1

Okay there is this group of boys who just don't like me and they always say to me "Giancarlo? What kind of name is that?" And sometimes they walk by me in the hallway and they say my name in a girly voice as if im gay or something and now im just pissed. What should I say to these boys next time they do that? Seriously, none of the boys like me because my name and they judge me on it, my school is so gay. Please write stuff to make me feel better and maybe even laugh at them.

2006-09-19 09:48:54 · 11 answers · asked by giancarlot91 2

My gf thinks i'm starting to scare her by how dark I am...my friend is concerned by how I always talk about darkness uncontrollably...I mean seriously...sometimes I talk about darkness without noticing my lips are talking on thier own!

A view of my life: I've been playing hide and seek for 14 years...and no one found me...ever! The reason why no one found me is because i hid in the darkness! I thought I would be able to get out but I'm such a fool, i'm trapped inside for ever!

How can I just control myself...because I'm starting to scare myself and my friends! I've never been like this! Today I looked myself in the mirror and I screamed at myself: WHO ARE YOU? YOU MONSTER! what can I do about this, please help me...I'm 14 and i'm a guy..

2006-09-19 09:47:38 · 9 answers · asked by The Time Traveling Magician 3

My most hated thing in the world is a cheater. I have been cheated on by almost every boyfriend and dumped them all. I am now married to someone faithful. My friend just told me that she cheated on her husband last weekend with a stranger- do you think I should tell her husband? I really want to since this is my ultra pet peeve and I would pray someone would tell me if my spouse cheated. Everyone has the right to know ...right?

2006-09-19 09:47:08 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

The first time he cheated they were just a couple, and she forgave him. Now they have a child together and she just found out he's up to his old tricks. Part of her agrees that she should kick him to the curb, but another part of her thinks she should stay together for their child, mainly because she's scared she can't do it alone. What's the right advice when I despise the jerk so much?

2006-09-19 09:31:27 · 20 answers · asked by omg_sotrue 2

My good friend acted different around me ever since i got back to school. Once, we were sitting an she starts resting her arm on my knee. I touched her shoulder and she flat out hugged me. Talked to me the whole class. Stole my hat for as long as she could. Found out her perfect guy descrition fits me. It ensuses

Then she tops doing it as much

stole my hat once and i just gave it to her

she wore it once yesterday but not today

but then she tells me that hitting is her way of affection

and wrestles on the ground with one her friends

then today sees me every chance she gets and makes sure to sit with me touches my hand to see a cut, stops at my locker.

so whats goin on

and if she likes me what do i to make her spill

2006-09-19 09:31:17 · 7 answers · asked by Will 1

Is it very rude if you send a message to somebody who you knew from high school on MySpace and you're letting her know how you're doing and she just reads the message without responding back to it.

Plus I've only seen her twice in the past 10 years and I was really looking forward hearing back from her on MySpace and I've spent about 10-15 minutes sending her the message, I do know that she has a child who is less than a year old but I've felt she could've been more polite and excited about hearing back from me and I would do anything in the world to be a great friend for her.

2006-09-19 09:27:16 · 20 answers · asked by Fell In Love 7

How do I get a girl to open up to me? like when I am talking to her, she answer with short answer and never ask back. How can I "win" her? I want to be friends with this girl. I know she doesn' have any interest in me but still, I want to be friends with her. I need a wat to get her to open up to me. like today, I asked her "what did you do this weekend?", she said "nothing." Please help. I do not find her attractive at all. What I intend to do after she becomes friend with me is just stay friends and hang out with her. I just need people to hang out in college.

2006-09-19 09:24:26 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-19 09:16:54 · 4 answers · asked by Markin Gomez 3

2006-09-19 09:13:32 · 9 answers · asked by Markin Gomez 3

My bestfriends one day act like friends and then the next day their acting likebiaatches ! I dont know what to do ? Should i work things out find new people to hang with ?

2006-09-19 09:05:57 · 9 answers · asked by .rachel. 1

i was in jail, and i was taking one medication. i hadthe medication with my belongings and every day, every night i completed this form called"snivvles" and for the two weeks that i was there, i got my medication one time. and no i didnt do anything bad, i didnt completedrivinf school.

2006-09-19 09:01:31 · 2 answers · asked by juicyfruitishandsome 4

2006-09-19 08:59:37 · 7 answers · asked by john s 3

What is the best thing to say to a person that you are not interested, Dosent help that hes cute,,but I just see him as a cool co-worker!

2006-09-19 08:58:58 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous

...and he said he likes both of us. I don't know what to do, she's my BFF and I don't want to get into a fight about it. Should I back off and let her have him? ONLY NICE AND HELPFUL ANSWERS

2006-09-19 08:56:26 · 18 answers · asked by iMegan 3

2006-09-19 08:54:47 · 23 answers · asked by Ã?â?¥Ã?ÄPixie Queen~* 3

We are very close friends and we were talking over msn messanger because its cheaper!and this is what he said:

got to go now
love you
if i could
i would.....
but i cant
because
doesnt matter
bye

And thats how he said it - im confused, he normally just says "im off, laters" lol.

I posted this question before but so many people asked me more questions so here are the answers:
He's not gay
He's really shy when it coms to girls he fancies
He's a virgin and doesnt want to lose his virginity before marriage because its against his (and my) religion - so its not for sex
He talks about other "fit" girls too at times
He's not old nor married
He is single but i have a b/f
He usually just makes it so in-my- face that he would never be with me!

He doesnt seem like the type to say something like that to any1 at all, and note how he just rambled on! I thought this was a platonic friendship because he's so open with me, even about embarassing stuff, - So whats going on?

2006-09-19 08:49:39 · 19 answers · asked by Miss Terious 3

My best friend's boyfriend is a real piece of work. He's selfish, and very controlling of her. For example. she and I were spending the day together, and he decides that he wants her to come visit him at work. She explains to him that I am with her, and gets upset. As though she's not supposed to have a social life! Then we go to dinner with him, because he got a break, and he gets mad at her for bringing me.
He does this all the time. He wants all of her spare time, and doesn't allow her to hang out with any of her friends without him calling every 5 minutes asking her what she's doing.
I don't know what to do. She's so in love with him, that she can't see what he does to her friendships.
I've tried to just be nice and get along with him, but I refuse to not stand up for myself, and he insults me a lot, so I say stuff back. Not in a bad way, in a "defending myself" sort of way.
What should I do about it?

2006-09-19 08:43:58 · 12 answers · asked by Heather H 1

i only know her first name, she went to school with me in the 10th grade, now i am in college, please help!

2006-09-19 08:41:55 · 7 answers · asked by LoveBug 2

I dont understand. Everybody insists on treating me bad or hating me for different reasons. I cant get a boy to like me or even make friends the way others can so easily. All the boys make it obvious of what they think about me just by the way they treat me. They never ask me out or even tell me I look pretty that day the way they tell other girls.
As for the girls, all they ever do is leave me out of everything and talk and say bad things about me behind my back. All I want to do is be like them, or at least be loved or feel loved once in a while. The few friends that I have comfort me to make me feel better, but that is all it is everyday- people trying to comfort me because they know the real truth.
I used to think that people used to hate me because of the way I look. So I changed things around a little bit- and now I realize it is a whole lot more than that. People are probably thinking that I am still that same immature girl from 6th grade. But Im not, I REALLY have changed.

2006-09-19 08:34:02 · 25 answers · asked by Watermelon Punch 3

is it ok to bet like $10 on a football game? with a very close friend that i knew for a long time?

2006-09-19 08:24:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Or is it none of thier biz what u look like.

2006-09-19 08:23:04 · 18 answers · asked by alisa11491 2

i have been seeing this bloke 4 about 2 months and then the other day he told me he only wants to be friends i'm fed up with him messing me around, becaquse he said this b4 and then changed his mind again, he still wants 2 b friends with me because he has'nt really got any friends of his own. what should i do? i dont want 2 keeo getting hurt.

2006-09-19 08:16:50 · 17 answers · asked by aj 1

We are very close friends and we were talking over msn messanger because its cheaper!and this is what he said:

got to go now
love you
if i could
i would.....
but i cant
because
doesnt matter
bye

And thats how he said it - im confused, he normally just says "im off, laters" lol.

I posted this question before but so many people asked me more questions so here are the answers:
He's not gay
He's really shy when it coms to girls he fancies
He's a virgin and doesnt want to lose his virginity before marriage because its against his (and my) religion - so its not for sex
He talks about other "fit" girls too at times
He's not old nor married
He is single but i have a b/f
He usually just makes it so in-my- face that he would never be with me!

He doesnt seem like the type to say something like that to any1 at all, and note how he just rambled on! I thought this was a platonic friendship because he's so open with me, even about embarassing stuff, - So whats going on?

2006-09-19 08:16:26 · 13 answers · asked by Miss Terious 3

2006-09-19 08:15:12 · 1 answers · asked by tareq K 1