What is the best thing to say to a person that you are not interested, Dosent help that hes cute,,but I just see him as a cool co-worker!
2006-09-19 08:58:58 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I work with women everyday. I would suggest watching you body language, avoid hugging or any unnecessary physical contact; men interpret these things in different ways than women. Many women touch without thinking, as women are generally nurturing and may not be aware of the signals physical contact can bring about. Be aware: a man is not a straight man unless he flirts with women, at least a little; he's only human, and its the best way he can find out who is available. If you value the person as a friend, say so; let him know you are with someone else, or dating someone else, and that you're not comfortable with flirting. A good man will respect you enough to try to control himself, but if he thinks you're interested at all, well, he may not quit. Good Luck!
2006-09-19 09:09:55 · answer #1 · answered by Bobby 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Tell him that you dating someone, keep bringing up about this hot guy your seeing. Even if its not true go on and on, about this guy and he will stop trust me. He doesnt want to hear about it. Even ask him for advice about what to do on the first date with this guy he will hate it, and realize that you are into someone else right now. Bring a picture of a ex boyfriend or someone he doesnt know and keep it on your desk or wallet and show it to others and when he comes near show him and ask him what he thinks, and just keep talking about him. He will end up not flirting with you and move on to someone else that he has a chance with. Or if you could keep saying how you dont want a realtionship at all for a long long time and you want to just have fun with your girl friends and go out with out men, and the last thing you want is a guy right now. Dont talk to him like your meaning it for him just say that theres this guy who likes you and keeps calling and flirting with you and you hate it when a guy is doing that cause its just pushing you farther apart. and than he will see that hes doing it to you too, and will stop. Here are a few things that you could do. Good Luck
2006-09-19 09:04:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some helpful answers here! Say or do what is most comfortable for you. If you work with him its a good idea to keep cool yourself.
Just tell him his flirtations are a waste on you and that other coworker might appreciate them more. ;)
2006-09-19 09:07:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you are not interested and if he continues with the flirting its going to create problems for the both of you in the work place and ask him how would he feel working in a strain atmosphere. if that doesn't work ask him how he feels about sexual harrassment in the work place.
2006-09-19 09:02:43 · answer #4 · answered by MARIE B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's asking you out constantly, then you must tell him that you're not interested. If he's just flirting casually, don't worry about it - guys do that to even the most unattractive women.
2006-09-19 09:05:10 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say "I never get involved with co-workers on a personal level but thanks for the flirt. Lets make this the last one OK?"
2006-09-19 09:00:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'd say be up front about it. I have had that prob and if you flirt back he'll just take it as that you don't mind and like him so becarefull not the lead him on let him know and be up front is the best way
2006-09-19 09:02:07 · answer #7 · answered by willokta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply don't flirt back and if he ever takes a further step like ask you out, just tell him you're not interested in him like that.
2006-09-19 09:06:07 · answer #8 · answered by FairyGirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well first thing thats got to be done, is you gotta stop wearing tight Hip Huggers in front of him,while Your wearing that tight thong you got on. lol jk, no but ide just let him know, that you value him as a friend, but at the present time, your just not looking for love
2006-09-19 09:02:45 · answer #9 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I'm flattered by your flirting, and it's fun at times, but I make it a policy to keep things at a professional level and not flirt or date co-workers"
2006-09-19 09:01:06 · answer #10 · answered by Heather S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋