I dont understand. Everybody insists on treating me bad or hating me for different reasons. I cant get a boy to like me or even make friends the way others can so easily. All the boys make it obvious of what they think about me just by the way they treat me. They never ask me out or even tell me I look pretty that day the way they tell other girls.
As for the girls, all they ever do is leave me out of everything and talk and say bad things about me behind my back. All I want to do is be like them, or at least be loved or feel loved once in a while. The few friends that I have comfort me to make me feel better, but that is all it is everyday- people trying to comfort me because they know the real truth.
I used to think that people used to hate me because of the way I look. So I changed things around a little bit- and now I realize it is a whole lot more than that. People are probably thinking that I am still that same immature girl from 6th grade. But Im not, I REALLY have changed.
2006-09-19 08:34:02 · 25 answers · asked by Watermelon Punch 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
All I am asking for is a second chance. And I havent gotten one yet.
2006-09-19 08:34:52 · update #1
don`t worry about it,time resolves everything.
It happened to me aswell when I was 14 or something like that,everyone in my class treated me bad because I just wasn`t like them...you cannot be like other,and you shouldn`t try to change yourself for nothing in the world.I was also sad about it,I even left that school because of them...no 5 years later,everybody wants to know me,everybody wants to be my friend...why?because at that time I wasn`t anything special,but now,I have changed my life,and I don`t want to seem high about me,but I am popular in the town i live.
Ignore them,and let them be as they are,you cannot change,and they won`t either,at least not now...try to do something with your life,and you will see that there will be people that will apreciate you.You can`t make everyone happy.just be you,and be happy,sooner or later you will find real friends.
Good luck,and hope that after some time you will be at least as happy I am.
2006-09-19 08:50:56 · answer #1 · answered by donatella 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
live with t the people who are bulling you will think they were really stupied when they get alder then they will think i wasted all this time i could be doing so much other things and also tell them that you are just wasting your time so shut up for once and make other peer in another class
2014-04-29 12:55:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe ur trying to hard to fit in. Jus b urself. Go somewhere and find a new circle of friends and get a new start. Have more confidence in urself!! Thas #1. I used to have the same problem trying to fit in, but as I got older, I jus said F@*K IT!!! And started to be myself, silly, funny, sarcastic, moody, whatever. The way I feel is if u don't like me then thas ur problem. Change for ur self not others and if they can't accept u then they weren't ur friends anyway. O I aslo found that I get along better with other guys than I do girls. Bitches can be EVIL!!!! I have a few close friends and that is all you need! In life people will only have about one or two true friends. Anything more than that is unrealistic. It's fine to have "associates" ( its what my college roommate calls them), but a "TRUE" friend will b there no matter what. U can b strandded in the middle of the ocean and if it was possible to come and get u they would. No questions asked. And those friends that talk about u behind ur back where never ur friends in the first place. Find people that have the same common intrests as u do and start from there. Hope this helps u. Don't hang with people to fit in and jus to say "I BELONG". Never put urself in a social situation that is uncomfortable to u. Ur comfort level is what makes it possible for you to be urself around others.
2006-09-19 08:54:14 · answer #3 · answered by Azrelle 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The World Hates Me
2016-11-11 04:47:36 · answer #4 · answered by hoppes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as if you're trying to please way too many people and you're not quite getting there. It's okay, really! A wise man named Abe Lincoln once said that "A man is truly blessed not with the amount of friends he has, but the number of true friends he keeps, usually counted on one hand." (Or some words to that effect, anyway). Remember, it's quality that counts, not quantity. Be yourself and do something that only you can do, but pull out all the stops and do it great! Life is for having fun and learning new things each and every day, for that is the real adventure!
2006-09-19 08:59:57 · answer #5 · answered by The Mystic One 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The whole world does not hate you. It feels like that sometimes I know. You have friends who love you and family so you are not alone. You will get a second chance. Anyway why do you want people like that to be your friends they sound bloody awful not the kind of people you want to hang out with. You will meet people throughout your life who will love you just as you are. Do NOT change for anyone and give attitude back if folks are bitching. You rock honey and don't let anyone tell you differently. :-)
2006-09-19 08:50:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Wow, what you wrote sounds like something I could write too. I haven't got a girlfriend and haven't had one in 14 yrs. If any women are hitting on me or giving me clues... I don't see it. I have some male friends but they NEVER ask me to go anywhere with them... not even to the bar. I fear that any girl I get involved with will leave me for someone they like better. I'm afraid we are doomed to lead a quiet, solitary existence. If God has a plan for me-- I don't get it. I certainly thought I would be married by now with a couple kids but no such luck. WHAT DOES IT ALL MEAN?!?!?!?!
Maybe we should look for new friends.
Don't suppose you live anywhere near southeastern Wisconsin.
:(
2006-09-19 08:42:54 · answer #7 · answered by Coo coo achoo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
omg i feel the same way i did some crap in 7th grade that ruined me and my reputation. it made me extremely socialphobic. i've been seeing a psycologist which has been helping. im in 12th grade now and only a few people have seen that i've changed and matured. i've wished for a second chance everyday since seventh grade. I guess the best we can do is just let people see that we changd. let them hear our voices. let them see our smiles. If they still don't like then whatev it there problem. :)
2006-09-19 08:39:36 · answer #8 · answered by Kev32189 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People don't hate people for their looks (not smart people anyway), but they avoid people that have personality issues (cattiness, nagging, trying to change others, moody, always gripping about something, complainers, etc.) I'd check out my attitude with this test:
God First
Family Second
Others Third
Me Last
If you pass that test. . . . your friends have the problem and happiness in your life is just around the corner.
2006-09-19 08:39:40 · answer #9 · answered by snddupree 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only way to achieve this is to just be yourself and stop caring so much. I know that sounds like BS or maybe hard to do, but you just have to be true to yourself and know that people who really love you, really care about you and really see the real you, are the only people you should care about either.
2006-09-19 08:39:41 · answer #10 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋