What's the best way to get a sweetheart (boyfriend/girlfriend)? I am 28 years old and I still do not have a girlfriend at all. I am starting to worry that I may never have a wife. What is the best "good" way to get a girlfriend??? I did not talk to anyone new when I was younger. Please help. What would you do if you were me??
2006-09-19 06:00:12 · 22 answers · asked by Surfer Dude 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You need to be more out going. Just start up random conversations with people, go to different places. You need to have confidence in yourself and then others will notice that.
2006-09-19 06:02:53 · answer #1 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello there!
I think my answer to this question would be that you need to get out and socialize with people who enjoy doing the same things as you. I know it's hard to be outgoing at times when you are shy. I have had that problem before in life. Like many others have said, look for a friend first. Any love that has not friendship for it's base, is like a castle built on sand. It will eventually crumble away. Hope you find what you are looking for. Just don't be too quick to rush into things. Take your time.
2006-09-19 08:50:57 · answer #2 · answered by bullet_with_buterfly_wings_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok ..you sound a little desperate..not good! you need to be confident and secure about yourself, don't panic, you are still young. Don't be trying too hard cause it will be obvious and you will make the girls run away from you if they feel that you are too needy or overly smothering,, take it slow and don't let the girl you are into her, let her enjoy the chase a bit..i know it's really stupid how some women are they like the chase ..so be careful.
Why don't you join a online match making? i met my husband there. Besides you'll meet a lot of differnt types of women. I'd still advice you to be smart if you joined a dating service.
2006-09-19 07:39:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there!!
Don't be afraid dude.. That's normal.. All you have to do is go out and date some girls out there so that you can have the right girl for you..
But, after doing so, nothing happens, just wait, for the right person for you will come.. If you are destined to marry at the age of more than 28, that's it.. Don't worry about that..
Take care and goodluck..
2006-09-19 06:03:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to be so shy-you have nothing to lose by giving someone a smile and a friendly "hello". start with the girlfriend first then worry about getting the wife!
2006-09-19 06:05:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just start out by,finding someone who has the same interest as me,maybe just stike up a conversation about that interest,who knows you may both just hit it off. But by no means ever give up,a Quiter never wins and a Winner never quits! Just be yourself,polite,and a little bravery dose"nt hurt either if your kinda shy like me.
2006-09-19 07:40:54 · answer #6 · answered by Iceman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read the book 10 Commandments of Dating, by Ben Young and Samuel Adams. Great book, easy and fun to read, and it's got some golden nuggets of wisdom in it...
2006-09-19 06:10:06 · answer #7 · answered by The New Mrs. Nguyen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there is alot of ways to meet nice lady. You can met them through a friend or local chruch or you can try the internet. one thing you should do is set down and make out a list of things you want in the lady in your life and have alots of question of things that means alot to you.
2006-09-19 08:31:06 · answer #8 · answered by Diane M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait it out... go out places... joingroups(pool,cards etc)... u never know what might happen if you do such things... im sure the right person will come along... theres no right or wrong way to get a girlfriend theres only one way! BE PATIENT WHEN THE RIGHT PERSON COMES ALONG YOU WILL KNOW!if you have to go online to dating services(fishoflife or fishoflove.com)..its free and lots of local singles! good luck! hope i helped!!!
2006-09-19 06:52:08 · answer #9 · answered by ♥PrEcIoUs♥DaYdReAmEr♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest that you talk to girls at your work. I'm sure one of your co-worker is there. You have to start saying "Hi" to new people every now and then. If you do not take risk, how can you know if you will be successful or not? So, if you see an attractive woman, talk to her. Introduce yourself.
2006-09-19 06:10:01 · answer #10 · answered by Symbolic User 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋