Ok, so I have GREAT friends and family, but I'm also usually the one everyone comes to their problems with. Some will often go on and on telling me what's bugging them. I don't mind, and I really like to help out, but I can't STAND it when someone talks horribly about someone else I respect. For instance, my mom is ALWAYS rattling on my grandparents or my dad and I love them very much, so I want to stop her from going on and on about something that I can't fix. She tells me EVERYTHING that drives her insane, and sometimes it drives me insane. If I tell her that I'd rather not talk about it, she'll yell at me. If I try to reason and be a peacemaker again she gets mad at me. If I stay quiet she thinks I don't care. Sometimes I don't know what to say, but I don't feel I can just sit there, I don't know what she wants from me. Also my friends are sometimes gossiping and saying bad stuff behind other's peoples backs, and I try to reason with them but I just get the cold shoulder, ahh!?
2006-06-21
15:10:54
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genuine♥
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