My friend says that she misses me coming over and just hanging out but when I suggest that we get together on a certain day she never answers my e-mail and it goes ignored.She'll e-mail me like a week later and never mention that she recieved that e-mail. We have been friends for 11years! Should I just drop her from my friends list or stop e-mailing her? What do you think I should do? She'll also sometimes e-mail me cards that say something like your friendship means alot to me and if I ever need anything just give her a call, well there have been times when I needed some help and she never picked up her phone or even called me back latger to see what I wanted. She has other friends that she doesn't really consider friends who just pop on by when they feel like seeing her. When she e-mails me she complains about them alot about how they annoy her and she really doesn't like what they do too much. Should I e-mail her or call her and tell her that we are no longer friends?
2006-06-21 15:40:11 · 7 answers · asked by danglingdamsel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Honey, it seems like she knows you are no longer friends. Also seems like she has no clue how to be a friend. If you genuinely care for her (11 years is huge investment) then keep emailing her, or calling her now and then, telling her about your life and memories you both share. If it is over, you will know it. Sometimes a relationship takes a break, too, though. Time will tell. I know her cavalier attitude hurts you. Good luck, child.
2006-06-21 15:44:46 · answer #1 · answered by rrrevils 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had friends where I have acted how your friend is acting to you. The reason why I did it was because I was going through a lot emotionally and I just didn't feel up to hanging out - but I didn't want to tell her what was going on. So I just made excuses up and became unavailable.
Your friend might be going through something or she just might be really busy. I don't think you should just drop your friend and never talk to her. Instead, why not get in touch with her or go to see her and just confront her honestly. Let her know that you noticed her blowing you off/ignoring you and you just want an honest answer why.
2006-06-21 15:46:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't email her and tell her you're no longer friends. That's not necessary at all. I think maybe she needs her space right now - she may be having some family problems or something else and not be able to spend time with you but she does let you know she wants your friendship.............so why not just give her her space, make other friends, and be there as a friend when she's ready to resume a closer relationship. No one knows what may be going on in someone else's private life - not even their friends.
2006-06-21 15:52:48 · answer #3 · answered by purplewings123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys have been friends for 11yrs. definitely stay friends..you can always talk things out ..go out for coffee or go to her house if she wont if she doesnt pick up the phone or email you back.and talk things threw with her..I had a problem with my friend as well and it was over a guy (BIG MISTAKE) we didnt talk for a few mnths then we started talking again and slowely becoming really good friends..now were INSEPERABLE!!..think TWICE before throwing away a friendship!good luck!
2006-06-21 15:48:32 · answer #4 · answered by desiirablee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is too short to waste your time. Spend it with family and loved ones who truly care about you. Here's an experiment - busy yourself with other activities and people that don't involve her, and see if she makes a genuine effort to get together. If not, you have your answer. I wish you the best.
2006-06-21 15:53:21 · answer #5 · answered by Melanie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she does not consider you her friend. You are only her friend when she needs you. Drop her like a hot potato. Ur her friend for conveninece
2006-06-21 15:47:49 · answer #6 · answered by Amy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once you have examine or heard the message. think of of it this type. If somebody next to you, asked you a question, do no longer you think of it is rude to lead them to wait 2 days on your answer?
2016-12-08 23:52:04 · answer #7 · answered by dricketts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋