Whats wrong with me?

Question

I barely say twenty words a day to my friends, I've never had a boyfriend, I dont feel normal talking on the phone to people I've know for less than five years, and I think I'm fat and ugly. What's wrong with me? =(

Answer 1

it could be nothing but it could also be something serious, that sounds like depression you should talk to a doctor or a trusted friend or family member

Answer 2

how old are you? I am being serious. I think you might have social anxiety. talk to a councelor. my sister also has a hard time talking to people and she went to counceling not too long ago and I see changes in her. little ones, but its helping. she still has her days when she wont talk much around people. also, I hate talking on the phone too! I would rather just see them in person so plan a fun summer day with some of your friends (it would be more comfortable for you and everyone if they all know each other well) and just have fun.

Answer 3

You suffer from low self esteem. Try finding something you are good at and that you can take pride in. Try confiding in a friend about your feelings. You will find that everyone has something they don't like about themselves or their body. If you give people the chance to get to know you, you may find that there is a whole other side of you yet to discover.

Answer 4

SWEETY,It sound to me your alittle depress and this is the best time to make yourself talk to your friends on the phone and if your in school,don't be afraid to join in with your friends and shoot the bull....Your not fat and ugly,baby your just down on yourself and really not trying to help yourself....You need to get out and have fun with your friends and enjoy yourself....Help yourself up and pretty soon you will start looking for that special guy.....And you know what,you will find him,believe me.....Have some fun....
Clowmy

Answer 5

Nothing is wrong with you. It sounds like you just have some emotional issues. You might be depressed. You should talk to your parents about how you have been feeling and see what they say. Maybe think about going to a counselor to help you out.

Answer 6

i think you just named what you think are all your faults, im pretty sure none of them are as bad as you think everybody is different some people are more social than others you may just be less social and close to less people than the average and there is nothing wrong witht that if thats the way you are than thats the way you are just dont let it make you unhappy then it is a problem and dont let anyone else tell you you have a problem if you dont

Answer 7

maybe you think it's too boring and you're lazy to do it. Just eat and lie down, that's what make you fat. There's nothing wrong with you. Go find a therapist and talk it out.

Answer 8

there's nothing wrong with you...

but there's something wrong with how you feel about yourself...

try to look at yourself inside and out...

you might discover something good about yourself...

be positive...

instead of saying your fat say that you're healthy...

and hey beauty is in the eye of the beholder...

don't feel ugly, if you keep on feeling that your ugly then you might and will be ugly but instead feel that you're pretty and you'll be pretty but of course do something about it, groom yourself...

Answer 9

You might possibly be depressed. Try going and talking to someone. If it's not serious then you'll just get over it in a day or so. If you don't please go to a Dr. Good Luck

Answer 10

you dont have much confidence in you.. try to me more jolly so you'd have more friends.. it pays to have a lot of friends girl. I was also a shy girl before but through webdatedotcom I was able to gain self-confidence.