Hey people, please read this, i really need help. I've known my boyfriend for about 2 years. This is online, hes planning to come visit me, next year but anyway. We have been going out for a couple months now. Everything was going well till like 2 weeks ago. He started ignoring me. I'm use to talking to him everday at least for an hour. The first time he started to ignore was when he decided to play playstation with his friends and not talk or leave a message the whole day. I was very worried about him that he was either arrested or died, because he went to a party the night berfore planning to get drunk... Ok so then the next day after he decided to ignore me, i told him i was really sad {which i was} because i missed a lot and i was worried. oook so he said hes sorry and felt bad. I was ok with that and we were all good then. So we talked for the next couple days everyday, and he decieded to ignore me again, when he said he would talk to me that day. So i left him an email and a message asking what he was up to and that i missed a lot. {which i did} then this morning i get and email from him saying that he missed me too and he will talk to me later. He left me NO explaintion, nothing. So i've been waiting to talk to him all day because i wanna tell him i wanna call him on his cell. But he hasnt been on. If he doesn't want to talk to me everyday all he has to do is say it. but hes ignoring me, which gives me the feeling hes dating someone else, because he only talks to me at 1-6:00 in the morning {his time}. I asked him if he was dating someone else and he said "no" and asked me why i would ask him that, and got all defensive. I want to tell him how i feel, but i can't, i don't know how to tell him that i feel sad, and i get really worried when he just ignores me. I cried because i feel like he doesn't care about me, i mean i thought this was the man of my dreams, i though i would actually have a future with him...??? He said he thinks im "the one" and that he "loves" me but i feel like hes lieing or keeping somthing from me. I sent him a package of lots of stuff worth like 75$ or more and he didn't even say "thanks". I'm so hurt i don't know what to do or say to him. I wanna fly and see him, but im a minor, so i dont know how to... I know he's the one for me, but why does he treat me like i'm nothing one moment, and say he loves me the next??? Does anyone know what i should do? or say to him? to make him know how i truly feel about him and how hes treating me... Any kind of answer is appericated, thanks.
2006-08-28
06:48:28
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Skye
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