when a guy have sex with a girl are they in love with the girl or are they just for the sex nothing else? My ex still have sex with me does he love me or is it just sex in his eyes?
2006-08-28 06:39:56 · 41 answers · asked by sexy nikki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your ex probably just hooks up with you because he likes having sex..he more then likely doesn't love you or else there would be no reason to not be dating you. I used to do that to my ex's, I didn't want to date them anymore but I knew they would still have sex with me.
2006-08-28 06:42:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The female mind doesn't think like the male mind. Most guys don't need to have any deep feeling for a girl just to have sex. The only way to find out is to ask him.
2006-08-28 06:46:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the guy. Most of the time when your young it's just for the sex but as you get older you look at life and women a little different and you want to find a partner to share life with not just your bed
2006-08-28 06:43:51 · answer #3 · answered by freeatlastboone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends, before you get to that point with a guy, you should know his motives. Sometimes they are deceptive, but just use your gut and ituition to see what they are after. Maybe your ex comes to you for sex because you are familiar to him and he doesn't want to try to get with a new person just for sex or maybe you are really good in bed and he misses it. Just talk with him and ask what his intentions are. If you don't like his intentions, tell him he can't use you for sex anymore and that's it.
2006-08-28 06:45:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys can separate sex from love. In many cases it it just sex for them.
2006-08-28 06:56:41 · answer #5 · answered by lavenderroseford 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to know for sure stop having sex with him. I have had this issue and depending on the guy there are plenty of guys who keep "for sures" around! I have a lot of guy friends who sit around and laugh about this. Not all guys are like that but young guys sometimes just can't help themselves. Why should he get what he wants if you can't? This could be a terrible snow ball for you and hopefully it brings you wisdom and not a ongoing habit.
2006-08-28 06:45:09 · answer #6 · answered by Mae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to be so blunt but, he wouldn't be an ex if he still loved you, as for the 1st part of the question I'm gonna have to lean more towards just for the sex. by the way, what is love?
2006-08-28 06:45:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In your case, your ex is just using you for the sex until he finds someone better.
2006-08-28 06:41:29 · answer #8 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could still love you, but most like it is just for sex.
2006-08-28 06:42:24 · answer #9 · answered by barter256 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
(Rhetorical questions)
If HE is having sex with YOU, who are YOU having sex with? I think you need to take responsibility for your own actions. You can't categorize "all" guys, any more than you can categorize "all" girls as "one and the same." Who knows what he thinks or feels? Doesn't he tell you? By asking the question, aren't you telling us that you don't believe him? Listen to yourself. Get some interests that make you less dependent on his validation.
2006-08-28 06:45:22 · answer #10 · answered by georgia b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋