I have been meeting this girl for just over a month now but we only meet once a week when we're out in a club! sometimes i text her with a question but sometimes never get a reply! we both really like each other and we don't wanna get too serious yet! Sometimes i feel that she is playing me! She has never wanted to meet me on my terms! I've always met her on her terms! Just feels as if i'm going out of my way more than she is if u know what i mean! Its like she has 2 minds! first u think she is going off ya and then it seems she likes me! Oh yeah at times i would text her to ask what she's up to but she wont reply until she gets home until the end of the nite and acts all lovey duvy with me! I'm just a bit confused cause when we are out we have a great time! Would love some views on this matter from girls! By the way i'm 23 and she is 21 and we both have just split up from dodgy relationships about 3 months ago! Usually i wouldn't care if a girl was acting like this but i do like her!
2006-08-28 06:44:21 · 12 answers · asked by red dragon 11 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey Pal I feel your pain I've been seeing a girl and she is very similar. She was in an violent relationship and now out of it wants to have some space but also wants to see me. Just take it slow and try and hang in there. Speak with her about it if you can but be warned she may dump you just because she's not ready to do the whole proper girlfriend boyfriend thing.
Good luck my friend.
2006-08-28 06:56:42 · answer #1 · answered by Sky 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She using you as she has no-one else to take her out after this guy dumped her. You will never be more than a companion, while shes out with you shes preparing her next lover, maybe shes spotted someone in the club you go to.
Also, she may be seeing her ex, sounds like dodgy behaviour. Dump her, there are millions of single women out there.
2006-08-28 13:55:16 · answer #2 · answered by vaivagabundo 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
she is only seeing you once a week BECAUSE you dont want to get too serious...she may really like you, but she is smrt enough to know that she will only start liking you more the more she sees you.
I have a friend who does this when she really likes a guy and doesnt want it to be ruined...perhaps she is afraid of making similar mistakes as in her last relationship, so she wants to take it slow and build up a good foundation first.
2006-08-28 13:50:16 · answer #3 · answered by kari 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have the same situation with my fella, we went out 2yrs ago for 4 months but i ended it cos of the distance, he lives 250miles away and works alot in the finance buisness......
we arange to meet up sometimes i go to see him and then he comes to see me, he came up for the week for my birthday took me out for dinner, out at the weekend..... we really have an amazing time together... but then when were apart I hardly hear from him, he hardly texts me, rairely calls me, its always me texting him and waiting for his reply, sometimes he doesnt reply, then apologises the next day.....
Its really doing my head in!!!!! why do they do this for christ sake if he only wanted sex... thers enough people in the city he lives!!
2006-08-28 15:19:42 · answer #4 · answered by meow22 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are one of many men on her string. Sorry if you really like her make her start seeing you outside of the club. If she refuses or gives you the run around then you are just a notch on her belt.
2006-08-28 13:55:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe she's married, or she could be living at home with her parents and can't go out like she wishes... Haven't u bothered to ask her what the problem was?
2006-08-28 13:52:59 · answer #6 · answered by Rogue 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Maybe she is scared to get more serious and once a week is just enough for her right now.
If she is worth it she is worth waiting for
2006-08-28 13:50:40 · answer #7 · answered by mick987g 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
perhaps you ought to be asking the girl this question.
if you feel that you can't, or that doing so would jeopardize the relationship - you should ask yourself - "is this a relationship I should be carrying on with?"
2006-08-28 13:57:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Maybe she has a job. In other words her world is probably more involved than just having you in it.
2006-08-28 13:51:01 · answer #9 · answered by Wayne 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
are you sure she's not married or still dating this person. something just dont sound right here......I would look into this if I were you. Good Luck!
2006-08-28 13:49:44 · answer #10 · answered by baseballmommy 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋