Hey people, please read this, i really need help. I've known my boyfriend for about 2 years. This is online, hes planning to come visit me, next year but anyway. We have been going out for a couple months now. Everything was going well till like 2 weeks ago. He started ignoring me. I'm use to talking to him everday at least for an hour. The first time he started to ignore was when he decided to play playstation with his friends and not talk or leave a message the whole day. I was very worried about him that he was either arrested or died, because he went to a party the night berfore planning to get drunk... Ok so then the next day after he decided to ignore me, i told him i was really sad {which i was} because i missed a lot and i was worried. oook so he said hes sorry and felt bad. I was ok with that and we were all good then. So we talked for the next couple days everyday, and he decieded to ignore me again, when he said he would talk to me that day. So i left him an email and a message asking what he was up to and that i missed a lot. {which i did} then this morning i get and email from him saying that he missed me too and he will talk to me later. He left me NO explaintion, nothing. So i've been waiting to talk to him all day because i wanna tell him i wanna call him on his cell. But he hasnt been on. If he doesn't want to talk to me everyday all he has to do is say it. but hes ignoring me, which gives me the feeling hes dating someone else, because he only talks to me at 1-6:00 in the morning {his time}. I asked him if he was dating someone else and he said "no" and asked me why i would ask him that, and got all defensive. I want to tell him how i feel, but i can't, i don't know how to tell him that i feel sad, and i get really worried when he just ignores me. I cried because i feel like he doesn't care about me, i mean i thought this was the man of my dreams, i though i would actually have a future with him...??? He said he thinks im "the one" and that he "loves" me but i feel like hes lieing or keeping somthing from me. I sent him a package of lots of stuff worth like 75$ or more and he didn't even say "thanks". I'm so hurt i don't know what to do or say to him. I wanna fly and see him, but im a minor, so i dont know how to... I know he's the one for me, but why does he treat me like i'm nothing one moment, and say he loves me the next??? Does anyone know what i should do? or say to him? to make him know how i truly feel about him and how hes treating me... Any kind of answer is appericated, thanks.
2006-08-28 06:48:28 · 5 answers · asked by Skye 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, its indeed long but because I feel you genuinely need help, thats why I went through it. So dear, you seem to be a very sensitive person. Anyway, it can be difficult to implement but I have a probable solution for you! Just do the same with him. I mean, don't give him any sign of life, no email, no call, no message, nothing. I know you are missing him, but you will have to be strong. Just try to ignore him, and let him have the feeling that he is not important for you and that you can live without him. You know, many guys just like when girls beg in front of them. So just try that and see. But b patient enough to wait for him coming back to u!
2006-08-28 07:15:27 · answer #1 · answered by Goldenheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right you both need to talk express how you feel for each other,holding back wont help,its this thing known as comunication,next time you speak bring it up say u wanna know how one min he can be loving when the next he wont talk,dont come across all moody just point out your concerns.cause unless you tell him,hows he to know.u didnt state how old u both are reason i ask cause u mentioned at one point u are a minor. but im sure if you both talk openly express you feelings and if there are any doubts then say,trust me unless you both comunicate your relationship wont last.but i will say some thing is not adding up here i have a horrible feeling its some thing you wont wanna hear,but i think he may have some one else the fact you brought him pressies and didnt even say ty is a clue,but at the same time men need space too.
2006-08-28 14:00:59 · answer #2 · answered by shaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is with someone else, he is using you and does not plan to be with you. He gives you future promises to keep you around. I could elaborate but you know it already. You do not want to see it, but it is there and if you do the math you will come up with the right answer. Good luck. Feel free to ask me anything if you need to.
2006-08-28 14:00:06 · answer #3 · answered by in_TIM_idation 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you go on and on and on and on and on and on...with him like you did in this question the poor boy is just FED UP!!! My guess is that he feels like you climbed up his rectum and there is no way to get a half inch away from you.....I suspect you have alread said EVERYTHING AND THEN SOME...give the poor boy some air and GET A LIFE.
2006-08-28 13:56:42 · answer #4 · answered by Bobbie E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are u writing a novel?
2006-08-28 13:51:19 · answer #5 · answered by lolli_pop69_2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋