Hey! Okay I'm a quiet but friendly girl at first (20 years old), but once I know someone I warm up to them and I am always laughing and smiling. Some of my guy co-workers (I work at a sports bar) who joke around with me a lot and talk to me a lot still say I am shy, because I don't talk ALL the time, and have a quiet tone of voice. They also always joke around and call me innocent because I don't party all the time, but they are nice about it. It bothers me, because I associate being called shy as "reserved", "bitchy", "snobby" and so on...which I know someone can be shy and not be that, because I can be shy, but I don't want other people thinking that of me. When they joke around and say I'm shy and quiet does this mean it bothers them or what?? I just don't want people to think I'm mean if I don't talk all the time. So...what does this mean?? Thanks for any helpful advice and God bless!!
2006-08-02
18:21:34
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