i am very shy... and i am not really good at talking to boys... the thing is i dont know what to talk to them about... help?
2006-08-02 18:21:41 · 10 answers · asked by Whatsername 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I was really shy when I was young and my Mom, of all people would give me ideas on what to say, especially if a boy called me at home. Just be friendly. Find out what he's interested in. Talk about what he is in to...sports, music, cars...whatever. But most of all, be yourself. Be friendly. Smile. Remember, he's only a boy, and is probably just as nervous as you are!! Good Luck!!
2006-08-02 18:28:02 · answer #1 · answered by sleepless in the ATL 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Guys like to talk about themselves if they know you're interested. So get an idea about what sports and music he's interested in and ask him about them. It might help to do a little research so you can ask some decent questions.
Guys also like humor. So if you're good at telling jokes or funny stories then that's a big plus in your favor.
Also, guys like to be heroes. So if there's something you need help with, that might be a good excuse to talk to a guy.
2006-08-02 18:30:33 · answer #2 · answered by klunk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
common interests. Just the same way, you would speak to a girlfriend of yours. Talk about the weather....
2006-08-02 18:27:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys love sports. get to know the guy and see which basketball team he likes. learn everything about the players and stuff, and talk about it with him. this almost always works even when the ugliest girls ask me.
2006-08-02 18:26:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just mention sex and videogames in the same sentence. Seriously. That's enough to get most guys falling all over you.
2006-08-02 18:26:44 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just talk to them about what you know alot about. or what theyr interests are. it always works. make funny jokes, goof around, mix it up and you'll see, you just gotta experiment a little! =]
2006-08-02 18:24:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think a sweet hi is going 2 do d needful.it is enough 2 start any conversation.
2006-08-02 18:28:35 · answer #7 · answered by sapna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do your research find out what he likes and if you don't know about it find out about and bring it up, most of them like sports.
2006-08-02 18:26:42 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs. Butler ♥2 B♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU KNOW WHAT... IN THE PAST I HAD MANY BOYS AS FRINDS AND LESS GIRL FRIENDS, WE WOULD HAND OUT AT A PARK, SMOKE WEED AND TALK WHAT INTERESTS HIM. THEN I WOULD START LISTENING TO HIS KIND OF MUSIC, AND JUST TALK ABOUT EACH OTHERS LIFES AND FAMLIY ECT...
2006-08-02 18:27:25 · answer #9 · answered by mary_parenteau 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
talk to me at me_same_as_u on yahoo chat
2006-08-03 02:16:52 · answer #10 · answered by tricky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋